Quote from: aleon515 on August 11, 2014, 12:21:04 AM
@Charliedogist:
I doubt your research is lacking. I'm very good at my research, and I would say that Dr G has done peri. It is a guess more so, than finding anybody who has had it done. Not too much and it is not what he prefers doing. He will try to talk you out of peri. I would guess he would do it if he thought you were absolutely perfect as a candidate. I would not go to someone who did not like to do the procedure I wanted, esp if I were not an iffy candidate for peri . He's an excellent surgeon, no doubt, but he has his speciality, which is DI, and which he only wants to do (with a bit of lipo on the side).
--Jay
Yeah, DI seems to be his specialty and deviation from that doesn't seem to be something he wants to do or is comfortable with perhaps. Medalie seems MUCH more comfortable and open to doing Peri/Keyhole surgery on good candidates and his consult fee is not terribly bad. I may do a consult with him and see what he thinks as far as Peri/Keyhole goes, and if he feels like he can't do a good job with a Peri/Keyhole, I may go with a different surgeon, but everyone seems happy with either procedure he performs, so I may stick with him. And as a happy coincidence, I found a friend of a friend who lives about thirty minutes from Cleveland, so I may just pay her (she's a very nice person that I do know in passing) to stay at her house and have her pick me up/drop me off if possible. Would be a lot cheaper than a hotel room for sure.
Looking at the surgeries Medalie has done, he seems to do lipo with most of them, but I'm not sure I'd need that myself (seriously underweight here, 5'9 and 112 pounds) so that may save a bit on the cost of surgery, and if I did need a revision and wasn't happy with the fat leftover, I guess I could always opt to have lipo done then, or later without a revision.
It's all pretty mind boggling trying to get your ducks in a row with something so huge in your transition. I'm starting to feel like I've got a handle on what I want, who I want to go to, and how to go about getting it done. I'm aiming at getting it done within the next six to nine months with a loan from my bank, just a regular loan. I don't like CareCredit, and I already have a credit card I can put the down payment on, so covering the rest of the surgery is what I'm saving up for. I could probably pay off my entire credit card which would shoot my credit score up with my savings account, but I'm reluctant to do that at this point.
Budgeting is not my strong point, and I'm proud of myself for just getting what I've got into savings. The other 6k will come in time, or with a loan, so I don't know if paying that card off and getting a high limit would be the way to go, or just saving as much as possible and getting the smallest loan possible would be the best way.
CO IS trans inclusive with their healthcare, but I'm not sure I'd be able to select my surgeon, and I'd rather select who I want than go to someone who's going to screw it up. There's a local surgeon in ATL that I'm not going to name, but the results he produces are NOT something I want at ALL.
Like I said, getting to this point has been a long road, and it still seems like it's lightyears away from actually getting done. Talking everything out helps quite a bit, just getting input from people who've had both procedures done, different surgeons and recommendations is extraordinarily helpful. I tend to overplan and over think things and work myself into a frenzy, and it doesn't help that I want it NOW, not nine months from now. :/