I'm single and hoping to date a cis female (lesbian or queer, whatever turns out compatible). Being in the middle of transition I'm not actively seeking anyone right now and I don't think there's a good chance of it happening in any meaningful way until I progress enough.
Now that I've been immersed in the trans community I've run into one really frustrating thing - I'm seriously attracted to pre-transition FTMs. I often find they are very beautiful and have great personalities. Unfortunately most elements of their physical transition put me off even though I still think they're good people. This at least would help define the kind of female I'd feel most comfortable with and what side of the dynamic I'd land on. I still find 'typical' femininity attractive but it never seems to come paired with the right personality.
That said, I'm not really leaving anything out of consideration except for cis men, but I've thought about it enough to be pretty certain of my 'target market'. One thing I absolutely need is someone who is an equal or more dominant character and who doesn't abuse their power if they are dominant. I'm absolutely sick of people throughout this world being bizarrely nasty to others and expecting to be rewarded for it. There are some special people out they who are non-confrontational and just genuinely nice and it is my challenge to find them in whatever form they take.
