I mean at first guys never ever talk to me, then a  cute guy talks to me , even if it was just two sentences, it counted! Lol. He would have talked more I'm sure but I didn't talk to him back.

Then there was the drunk dude that was saying I'm so pretty and all that and today a man asked me for my number. What's going on? Did I drink an attraction potion or something?

You have turned the corner with confidence and the way you present.

Just watch the drunks they can turn nasty in a second.

Congrats

TOLD YAAAA (x2)

You're a flower blossoming, and guys are noticing you. Hormones are doing their magic. This is excellent news!!

You gotta start talking back to them too I know it's difficult right now because you are worried with your voice, but you got to practice as well! So start somewhere

And I agree with mrs izzy, be careful with drunk guys. they can get dangerous.

best wishes

but I'm not confident though.

Lol yes Marianna you certainly did tell me. But why is it happening so suddenly? The hormones didn't work in a day. Maybe just coincidence that a few guys saw noticed me

You must be showing confidence that you are not aware you have.

Its all part of growing into the gender role.

Quote from: melanie maritz on August 11, 2014, 01:21:59 PM
but I'm not confident though.

Lol yes Marianna you certainly did tell me. But why is it happening so suddenly? The hormones didn't work in a day. Maybe just coincidence that a few guys saw noticed me

Hormones surely didn't work in a day. You're probably showing more confidence and most people are afraid to approach others they find cute. So that guy wasn't shy to show it, and the other was uninhibited because he was drunk. When people are drunk they are way more expressive and honest.

I'm into the gender role for sure, but that doesn't mean I have confidence just like cis women don't always have it either . But I get what you're saying

Someday it all will click,

Just keep up with what you are doing, its working.

And I got a haircut today I got a fringe now. It looks so much better because it hides my big forehead and now it looks like I have a bob hairstyle

You are beautiful that is why. I mean seriously, I don't think anyone could deny your looks.

Guys stare at me, I dunno if it is positive or negative, but it creeps me out. I don't like guys romantically at all. At least you know if people are asking for your number, they are into you, it certainly beats just getting stared at.

you yourself are beautiful and look perfectly female. I bet those guys are all checking you out lol

Oh believe me, before this sudden change, I was stared at a lot too. But mostly by older guys which sucks lol.

The guy who asked my number did kind of creep me out, I gave it to him even though I didn't want to. Then he asked in what area I live and if I would be interested in being his girlfriend, then I just said I don't want a boyfriend but thank you.

Quote from: melanie maritz on August 11, 2014, 02:48:11 PM
you yourself are beautiful and look perfectly female. I bet those guys are all checking you out lol

Oh believe me, before this sudden change, I was stared at a lot too. But mostly by older guys which sucks lol.

The guy who asked my number did kind of creep me out, I gave it to him even though I didn't want to. Then he asked in what area I live and if I would be interested in being his girlfriend, then I just said I don't want a boyfriend but thank you.

I really don't think they are suddenly noticing you but rather you are noitcing them noticing you. One little word or advice though, if you don't want to give out your number, don't. I have no idea how old you are but once people are over the age of 12 guys just don't boldly up and say, will you be my girlfriend? Find the number to the local gas station and remember it by hear and if guys ask for your number and you don't feel right about it or pick up some bad vibes, give them the number to the gas station.

Quote from: Jess42 on August 11, 2014, 03:13:31 PM
I really don't think they are suddenly noticing you but rather you are noitcing them noticing you. One little word or advice though, if you don't want to give out your number, don't. I have no idea how old you are but once people are over the age of 12 guys just don't boldly up and say, will you be my girlfriend? Find the number to the local gas station and remember it by hear and if guys ask for your number and you don't feel right about it or pick up some bad vibes, give them the number to the gas station.

My friend used to give out the number to domino's pizza because she had that one memorized lol

Quote from: Hikari on August 11, 2014, 03:20:49 PM
My friend used to give out the number to domino's pizza because she had that one memorized lol

I have a dormant cell phone number I use for all sorts of junk mail and spam. I call it my biatch number. 

Lol thanks Jess I didn't think of that. Yeah it was weird that he said that but I tried to act all normal about it like I didn't think it was weird. I don't know why I gave it to him and why didn't say no. It's probably because I'm not used to things like this happening

oh and I'm not a teen as you can probably see, I'm 20

Also never tell them where you live either, I should have mentioned that before I did the telephone number.

Quote from: melanie maritz on August 11, 2014, 03:25:16 PM
Lol thanks Jess I didn't think of that. Yeah it was weird that he said that but I tried to act all normal about it like I didn't think it was weird. I don't know why I gave it to him and why didn't say no. It's probably because I'm not used to things like this happening

oh and I'm not a teen as you can probably see, I'm 20

Yeah that with guys asking you right off the bat to be their girlfriend once you get out of elementary school is kind of creepy, or it is to me anyway. Wine me, dine me, take me out on a couple of dates and then we'll see if we hit it off.

Melanie,

If your avatar is of a recent photo, then i can understand why random guys are hitting on you. You have this fresh, young, pretty look.

Any guys staring at you are just checking you out, young or old.

aww thank you Leila *blush* yeah it's quite recent, I think I took it last week.

It's still difficult though, cis girls never have to worry if a man is staring at them because they might look like a guy.

But yeah, I wanted to get noticed by guys and now that it's actually happening I realise I don't know how to deal with it.

Quote from: melanie maritz on August 11, 2014, 03:46:48 PM
aww thank you Leila *blush* yeah it's quite recent, I think I took it last week.

It's still difficult though, cis girls never have to worry if a man is staring at them because they might look like a guy.

But yeah, I wanted to get noticed by guys and now that it's actually happening I realise I don't know how to deal with it.

I agree with Leila Melanie. Get use to the looks. Yeah it's difficult but do you know how many cisgirls are totally selfconscious? We maybe selfconscious about being closcked but there are plenty of things that make cisgirls selfconscious and I don't think ther's anything they ore we can do about it but just live with it.

But if someone mistakes you for a guy, I'll smoke a bag of dog poop. Not really though.

hahahaha Jess that's very brave of you to say .

I don't get sir'd anymore, only by people who know me and I guess that's because they knew me as a guy for so long and also because I don't bother trying to sound female around them