Welcome Smitty you have come to a wonderful place with lots of help. I to am a vet ,VN 1970-1971 and go to the VA, what a cluster, hope yours is better than the two I deal with.Started HRT 12-25-2013 and I know what you mean about walking into the VA dressed, the day I did that was the day I started full time.If you have the courage to walk in there with all those brave men you can go anywhere and that was the last time I dressed as a male. Patty