What we experience good or bad is just all about human nature, it's goodness and it's failings, nothing we can do will change that, so any changes will have to be up to us starting with internal changes of the heart. As for dysphoria, it comes and goes like the waves of the ocean, it's always there and most often exacerbated by hormones. Most importantly we need to maintain a cool and discerning mentality and sense of oneself and always take into account that in forums such as this and in local trans support groups there is always an underlying tow of peer group pressure and a pervasive group-think mentality because others have placed expectations that you will become thus and so like them which in turn gives them even more personal validation in their own transition. One needs to be above the ebb and flow of that pressure and be their own unique person that complements who we are as individuals rather than become self destructive. The old testament prophet once said, "The heart is deceitful above all things and desperately corrupt who can understand it?" From personal experience I agree with that statement wholeheartedly and know it to be true.
