I'm female trans when I'm my female self all I can think about is hooking up with a guy and have him inside me but don't think I'm possible not sure how to meet trans friendly men. When I try to be the man I was born haha meet women I'm good in the oral department but just can't get it up to be the man the thought doesn't arouse me at all. Weird only time I ever become erect is when I'm a girl think in about being penetrated so confused so frustraited 

Bummer. Are you on HRT? I found my personal sexual fixations pretty much died once I was on hormones and it rarely crosses my mind these days.

Jayde, I deal with this too. About the only thing that will get it going is if I imagine I'm the girl about to have a guy....... do that thing guys do!:o lol

Yep am HRT for last few moths and was before but stopped still always get sexually aroused as a girl good and bad ha ha . Good idea about using my imagination switching positions :)but did try that with a very understanding girl but in was no go guess I'm just a bottom hee hee