Two things actually, I was at the supermarket and this young kid directed me to a different checkout line. He used the word Ma'am and then when I turned toward him directly he paused, then gave an unsure sir. I was'nt really dressed femiinine, just womans boot cut jeans, a pair of stacked heeled ankle boots, and a men's light square hemmed summer type shirt, and no makeup. It took me a sec to realize what just happened and I lit up 'inside' like a christmas tree. Nice boy but he just may need to see an eye doctor 🙂 , will take it nonetheless. Second, this led to an examination in front of the mirror for a profile check and realized that I have lost enough weight to easily move to an size 8 pair of jeans. I like these kind of days, and my first Ma'am (no matter the circumstances) are in my mental rolodex. Dani