SO. It has been an incredibly LONG LONG time since I've last been here, but I'm sure many of you understand the cycles we often go through of activity. Plus life. That happens. Oh lord. Hopefully, I shall get my 'blog' here un-archived and just jam you all with mah updates.

But anyways! My STP Packer just arrived today - FREAKING EXCITE - but man oh man I have so many questions. I got it from tranzwear, it's the Mr. Limpy with the Go Girl and tube, a style I believe will work best for me. That being said, I've never ever packed. So I have absolutely no idea what it's supposed to look like, how it's supposed to sit. I know you're supposed to practice a bunch at first too, just so you don't pee everywhere, but how are you supposed to pull out and be discreet enough for it? If that makes sense? Like, the device cannot be partially collapsed or you won't be able to pee straight or properly through it. And with a tube in it, it doesn't necessarily just sit nicely. I have to keep my hands in my pants and position it. I have absolutely no idea if cis men need to do these kinds of things out of comfort or what have you.

Basically. I know nothing about how men do the do thang at the urinal and I just need advice on packing and such.

Thank you guys! Much love!

It usually means a tad of rearranging at the urinal. I'm not a fan of go girl. Some use a harness, some use snug briefs to make things stay in place until you need them. Other than that, I'm not sure of the question.

If you need help as to what looks like a realistic bulge in the undergarments/pants then I suggest googling it and/or looking at male underwear models etc to give you an idea. At home for the STP I suggest practicing first without any clothes on, then go slowly by practicing with underwear on, and so forth. Boxer briefs or briefs are almost always recommended for any kind of packing if you intend on doing that sans harness. With a harness underwear type doesn't matter much if you have a good harness but boxer briefs or briefs will give you good security. Also FYI cismen from time to time adjust themselves in public so dont worry if you need a quick adjustment I'd just be wary if you had to like.. stick your hand straight in your underwear and shuffle it around a bit since that'd attract unwanted attention (lol ).

Anyways, congrats on your packer/STP!

Quote from: LordKAT on September 11, 2014, 02:55:09 AM
It usually means a tad of rearranging at the urinal. I'm not a fan of go girl. Some use a harness, some use snug briefs to make things stay in place until you need them. Other than that, I'm not sure of the question.

Yeah, that's what I kind of figured. I just didn't want to look completely ridiculous at the urinal if I needed to rearrange or adjust before a zip-up. XP I'm finding snug briefs work fine for me thus far.

Quote from: Maleth on September 11, 2014, 03:24:17 PM
If you need help as to what looks like a realistic bulge in the undergarments/pants then I suggest googling it and/or looking at male underwear models etc to give you an idea. At home for the STP I suggest practicing first without any clothes on, then go slowly by practicing with underwear on, and so forth. Boxer briefs or briefs are almost always recommended for any kind of packing if you intend on doing that sans harness. With a harness underwear type doesn't matter much if you have a good harness but boxer briefs or briefs will give you good security. Also FYI cismen from time to time adjust themselves in public so dont worry if you need a quick adjustment I'd just be wary if you had to like.. stick your hand straight in your underwear and shuffle it around a bit since that'd attract unwanted attention (lol ).

Anyways, congrats on your packer/STP!

I have no idea why I had not thought of that...huh, lol. I've always been more comfortable in briefs anyways, so as mentioned above, I don't need the harness really. I've actually been doing really really well with my practicing thus far, only had some leakage twice. XP Woops, but I expected it to happen. And true, that's right. I just didn't want to look 'wrong' when I tuck it in in a certain way whilst zipping my pants back up. But that's the only time I really ever need to adjust. So I kind of do stick my hand in my pants, but only at (for instance) said urinal and when I'm zipping up. Which from the sounds of it all, isn't too bad. It isn't like I'm feeling myself up or anything and it's literally for a second.

Thank you!! ^^