It matters more on how you see yourself than anything else.  Think that through and validate what you hear from the doctor.  Don't depend totally on any doctor.  Doctors can be great but I have seen plenty of times where they make mistakes despite best intentions.  Just my 2 bits. 

Thanks so much for all of the responses, I feel better about the whole thing now and understand it's more about me and not the therapist and I have the ability to change that as well I have always known who I am and I am happy with that.