Quote from: JHeron on September 13, 2014, 05:35:15 PM
Guys.. (And girls.. and everyone in between) I feel so douche doing this but is really like to post my pic on here  but I've no idea how.. I tried copy and paste and attachments idk.. I already got over 14 posts so help? 

I think the easiest way is to just use a hosting site and then post a link here

Quote from: JHeron on September 13, 2014, 05:35:15 PM
Guys.. (And girls.. and everyone in between) I feel so douche doing this but is really like to post my pic on here  but I've no idea how.. I tried copy and paste and attachments idk.. I already got over 14 posts so help? 

Yea mate, i really couldnt work it out either. So much easier posting a link to a different site

It is in fact the only way to do it. Upload your pic to another hosting site and then put the URL for the pic between the IMG tags.

[IMG]http://full-image-url.jpg[/IMG]

Still pre - t , but I'm gonna be without t for a loooong time so any passing tips will really be appreciated ;-;








I was thinking of getting this hair cut -  I love it but I don't know if it'd be too short and make me look more feminine though, thoughts?
( Note: It's Jay Weinberg *drools* )

JHeron, your link doesn't work.

Matthew, I think the current haircut you have is a good choice for you and wouldn't mess with it (for passing purposes, anyway).  I would read you as a teenage boy.

Well I figured out how to do profile pic.. Can you guys see it enough to tell? I apologize for the lack of happiness  but I find the pictures I try to smile in just end up looking strange ha

So I got my first binder an hour ago...does it help or can you still see my chest? D:

Can't really tell, the black all sort of blends in man sorry :\

JHeron damn boy, you handsome hehe, lookin' great!
Marcellow from what I see in the pic you look naturally flat, kickass shirt  Lookin' great as always, man


-Matt

Thanks Matt that means a lot bro Im scared to even contemplate T cause I'm deathly afraid of losing my hair and making an ugly dude honestly.. Idk if that's stupid but it's real for me I don't wanna trade being an ok looking female to be a hideous guy sigh (Apologize for sounding so into aesthetics.. Sigh Wilde would be proud lol) you guys think T could do good things for me?

JHeron all t would do pretty much is emphasise your more masculine features, lower your voice and make you hairier
If that's what you want do it, but not everyone chooses to medically transition. You look awesome dude, t isn't gonna make you ugly
And there's tons of cool guys without hair, Chris Kael, Dave Draiman ect.

-Matt 

Quote from: Matthew on September 15, 2014, 07:15:24 PM
JHeron damn boy, you handsome hehe, lookin' great!
Marcellow from what I see in the pic you look naturally flat, kickass shirt  Lookin' great as always, man


-Matt

Thanks!^^ Been waiting to get my binder to put that on.
Now I just need a masculine haircut and I'll be in business.

Quote from: JHeron on September 15, 2014, 07:26:54 PM
Thanks Matt that means a lot bro Im scared to even contemplate T cause I'm deathly afraid of losing my hair and making an ugly dude honestly.. Idk if that's stupid but it's real for me I don't wanna trade being an ok looking female to be a hideous guy sigh (Apologize for sounding so into aesthetics.. Sigh Wilde would be proud lol) you guys think T could do good things for me?

It definitely will, you look like a young boy.
I also have the fears of losing my beautiful thick hair ;3;

Yeah I usually get assumed to be 16 on a good day 18 haha far as hairstyle man it can honestly say if you go to a good salon and talk to a stylist tell me what kind of cut you want(long or short and masculine) they should hook you up Just make sure you emphasize a masculine cut lol I once forgot and looks like a 20s bob girl -_-

Quote from: JHeron on September 15, 2014, 07:26:54 PM
Thanks Matt that means a lot bro Im scared to even contemplate T cause I'm deathly afraid of losing my hair and making an ugly dude honestly.. Idk if that's stupid but it's real for me I don't wanna trade being an ok looking female to be a hideous guy sigh (Apologize for sounding so into aesthetics.. Sigh Wilde would be proud lol) you guys think T could do good things for me?

Hey, you look awesome! I'm sure you're going to be a super handsome guy on t!

I can relate to the worry about losing hair though. I'd most definitely go bald, there isn't a guy in my family with full hair (although to be honest, I only know about my dad and granddads, no other bio-guys in the family). On the other hand I find a lot of bald guys very attractive.

You guys look awesome. Im so jealous, i want a binder, but have such a big chest dont know if its even worth trying.

Also, i  dont think you'd be losing any hair until you were a lot older. By which point it will just be like all other guys, and also it doesnt mean 100% youre going to lose your hair. If you wanna try it man i think it would do good things for you.

J

Quote from: JJones on September 16, 2014, 11:31:31 AM
You guys look awesome. Im so jealous, i want a binder, but have such a big chest dont know if its even worth trying.

Also, i  dont think you'd be losing any hair until you were a lot older. By which point it will just be like all other guys, and also it doesnt mean 100% youre going to lose your hair. If you wanna try it man i think it would do good things for you.

J

Well a binder won't make a chest completely flat, men have pecs so it's slightly elevated. I have a pretty big chest and it's binding fine.

I personally am scared it'll make my chest  hang lower than it is now which i don't want because I'm dead set on peri so I'm waiting to transition also it seems painful. I'd rather get a breast reduction and live with that until I can transition.

I was wanting to let my hair grow out again since it seems when it was longer I got gendered more as he, but now I just get hit on by a lot of lesbians... Nothing wrong with lesbians it just bruises my ego a bit and gives me a dysphoria since well, they like girls. But right now its at a length that I think makes me look more feminine so I thought I would ask if you guys think it might help if I go for a haircut to style it more masculine or just let it continue to grow?





Meh... I have such an awkward smile on pictures xD

But, here is a picture of me with longer hair, everyone assumed I was like a sixteen year old boy, but I at least got more gendered as he on the streets.

Quote from: Marcellow on September 16, 2014, 11:39:11 AM
Well a binder won't make a chest completely flat, men have pecs so it's slightly elevated. I have a pretty big chest and it's binding fine.

What binder did you get?

Also Dalex, i think you pass both ways, cant quite put my finger on it, but you do seem slightly more feminine with shorter hair, but if i saw you in the streets i wouldn't question your gender, you'd pass for a he in my book.

Quote from: JJones on September 16, 2014, 03:49:08 PM
What binder did you get?

Also Dalex, i think you pass both ways, cant quite put my finger on it, but you do seem slightly more feminine with shorter hair, but if i saw you in the streets i wouldn't question your gender, you'd pass for a he in my book.

I got the Underworks tri-top binder form Big Brother Binder Program. Can be super low cost or cost you nothing depending on how strapped for cash you are.