I pack with a mr right packing harness, an extra small mr limpy and boxer briefs. I'm usually pretty secure with this combo but yesterday while at work something felt out of place. I told a customer "sorry, I should've used the bathroom before this appointment" and ran to the bathroom. My packer fell almost completely out of the harness and was being held in place mostly by my "I've got to pee" stance (thighs tight together, knees bent slightly). I ran to the bathroom, adjusted, washed my hands, and went back to work. I felt it out of place again later that day.

The first time I had my dick fall out of my pants was after I bought my first mr limpy...it was the XL because I was like 18. I thought bigger was better (spoiler alert: it isn't). I was dancing and my packer fell completely down my pant leg. I scootched into a corner and adjusted. It was a really crummy experience but nobody noticed.

So...I ask you all: When have you had an awkward moment of harness failure? What have you done to resolve this issue?

Once while walking to the bus station after college with pretty much my whole class my packer came loose and fell down my pants leg. If I wasn't wearing cuffed jeans it would have fell completely out...I pretended I needed to tie my shoelaces, popped it up my sleeve and then into my pocket when I stood back up.

Jeatyn, that was a close one.  I hope I never get that close to losing mine out of my pants leg.

I rarely pack any more but sometimes I like to.  And when I do, I make sure I'm wearing some sort of brief with a snug-fit leg opening so that if the harness fails, the packer can't escape the briefs.  I've had incidents of the Mr. Limpy falling out of my briefs while using the toilet, but fortunately that happened in solo bathrooms (ie no stalls) so nobody noticed.

I'd rather not pack most of the time so I can use the urinals and the packer impedes that for me.


Jay

I've always been a runner, I'll run between 10 to 20km's a week.
anyway, when I first came out to mum, I was a teen, we moved interstate and I was only allowed T-blockers until I was 18, but I was living full time after we moved.

One of the things I used were breast forms, which I stuck to myself. One day while running, in a tight sportbra with the forms stuck on a warm day I felt one starting to slip a little, it happened to be my left one, anyway I started to grab at my left boob, while pulling up fairly quickly and I got down to 1 knee to try to hide what I was doing.
Then, all of a sudden this HOT ASS guy comes over to me, thinking I was close to having a heart attack says "I saw you stop and grab your heart, I've called the ambo's just in case, do you need water?"

I got up and said I'm fine and took off

I've found that the best type of harness I've ever used is just buying a roll of simple bungee cord (not the kind with the hooks on the end of course, just the cord), and tying that around my waist. I've never had any issues with it, and they stay secure through sleeping with it on, showering, working, going to the gym, everything. Costs maybe 5 bucks at most at Walmart, and one roll could potentially last me 3 years with how long it takes to wear one harness out. If you tie it around the packer correctly it also doesn't do the awkward dick-flipping-around-turning-lopsided ordeal.

I actually don't even use a harness - I've worn men's briefs since I was about 10 (and girl's briefs before that) so I just stick my packer in and go. I honestly never have a problem because my underwear are really snug.

But one time I was wearing a loose-ish pair of briefs and I had to run maybe 200 yards to the field in gym class, and my packer did a complete 180. I tried everything in the book to discretely fix it but nothing worked, so I spent the next 40 minutes pulling my shirt (thankfully quite long) over the obscenely huge, deformed bulge in my shorts. Nobody noticed (or at least didn't say anything) though, so I was happy about that and threw away those briefs as soon as I got home lol.

FindingJames,  I would want to feel my packer wasn't going to move around if I were to wear one in gym class.  How did you change clothes having a packer for gym class?

This is how I pack (harness-free): Buy a pack of Fruit of the Loom boxer briefs. You can sew the fly shut on the outside and also on the inside (no extreme sewing skills needed, I had never sewn anything before this). After sewing the fly shut, cut a small opening near the top of the inner layer of the underwear. Now you can put your packer in there, it keeps it nicely in place and prevents it from touching you which I always hated. As seen here it doesn't really change the way the underwear looks on the outside. Totally stealth way to pack without paying more for underwear. Hope this helps someone!
http://38.media.tumblr.com/025ec557ecf9801d5b32c5d3540d0d95/tumblr_nc0e00dlzG1qguqqao1_500.jpg

May I recommend RodeoH underwear harness? Keeps the junk firmly in place thanks to the O-ring. No awkward erections either as long as your packer is soft. Should be great for jogging.

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,173665.msg1524093.html#new

That's smooth, man. I would have freaked out and run away and left my dick lying there at the bus stop. XD

Quote from: Jeatyn on September 14, 2014, 05:05:57 PM
Once while walking to the bus station after college with pretty much my whole class my packer came loose and fell down my pants leg. If I wasn't wearing cuffed jeans it would have fell completely out...I pretended I needed to tie my shoelaces, popped it up my sleeve and then into my pocket when I stood back up.

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One of the things I used were breast forms, which I stuck to myself. One day while running, in a tight sportbra with the forms stuck on a warm day I felt one starting to slip a little, it happened to be my left one, anyway I started to grab at my left boob, while pulling up fairly quickly and I got down to 1 knee to try to hide what I was doing.
Then, all of a sudden this HOT ASS guy comes over to me, thinking I was close to having a heart attack says "I saw you stop and grab your heart, I've called the ambo's just in case, do you need water?"

I got up and said I'm fine and took off

Lol!!! That's an awesome story!

Quote from: sebster on September 19, 2014, 08:30:23 PM
That's smooth, man. I would have freaked out and run away and left my dick lying there at the bus stop. XD

If it had actually fell out I may have done just that  thank god I was 1: wearing cuffed jeans, 2: wearing a coat with long baggy sleeves and deep pockets xD

So..this isn't a packer harness failure, but one time when my partner and I were having sex using a strap on, things got really heated and I was being pretty rough....and her...errr...inner lips got caught in the O-ring holding my cock in place.

Talk about an awkward and painful experience...she was in tears by the time we got untangled

Quote from: Nicole on September 15, 2014, 09:11:32 PM
I've always been a runner, I'll run between 10 to 20km's a week.
anyway, when I first came out to mum, I was a teen, we moved interstate and I was only allowed T-blockers until I was 18, but I was living full time after we moved.

One of the things I used were breast forms, which I stuck to myself. One day while running, in a tight sportbra with the forms stuck on a warm day I felt one starting to slip a little, it happened to be my left one, anyway I started to grab at my left boob, while pulling up fairly quickly and I got down to 1 knee to try to hide what I was doing.
Then, all of a sudden this HOT ASS guy comes over to me, thinking I was close to having a heart attack says "I saw you stop and grab your heart, I've called the ambo's just in case, do you need water?"

I got up and said I'm fine and took off

That is totally humorous...and awkward. I'm glad you shared that story. 

Quote from: mm on September 16, 2014, 04:03:18 PM
FindingJames,  I would want to feel my packer wasn't going to move around if I were to wear one in gym class.  How did you change clothes having a packer for gym class?

Well other than that one time with the loose briefs I've never felt like it was going to move around or fall down my leg. I guess maybe because I've never used a harness I'm just used to how it feels in my underwear. I mean, it's not like I'm wearing boxers and trying to keep that thing between my legs, haha. Even when I'm in gym, it usually stays in place or only moves maybe a couple millimeters up in which case it's really easy to discreetly fix it. To answer your question, I change in the bathroom. I can't change in the boy's locker room and I don't feel comfortable changing in the girl's, so I change in the nurse's bathroom. Also, everybody in my school knows I'm trans* so even if I did change with other people, they wouldn't say anything about me having a packer.

Quote from: Nicole on September 15, 2014, 09:11:32 PM
I've always been a runner, I'll run between 10 to 20km's a week.
anyway, when I first came out to mum, I was a teen, we moved interstate and I was only allowed T-blockers until I was 18, but I was living full time after we moved.

One of the things I used were breast forms, which I stuck to myself. One day while running, in a tight sportbra with the forms stuck on a warm day I felt one starting to slip a little, it happened to be my left one, anyway I started to grab at my left boob, while pulling up fairly quickly and I got down to 1 knee to try to hide what I was doing.
Then, all of a sudden this HOT ASS guy comes over to me, thinking I was close to having a heart attack says "I saw you stop and grab your heart, I've called the ambo's just in case, do you need water?"

I got up and said I'm fine and took off

Dang girl! You are smooth as silk! I couldn't adjust what I had that smoothly when I was wrestling! Thanks for sharing.

I'm a preschool teacher and one time I was in class, which lasts 7 hours. My favorite boy, Ryota, who I call baby-zilla, was raising heck and running around. I picked him up off another boy and somehow that little booger turned around, grabbed my junk and yanked it loose. Fortunately I wear very tight boxer briefs that hold everything place but he did manage to snap my harness. I didnt think too much about it since I was trying to stop the boys from fighting, but the office manager was in the room with me and she yelped and asked me quickly "Are you okay?!" I had to fake being hurt since I'm not out at work and I played it off. When she asked I told her that I have five little brothers, which is true, and she accepted it. She was an only child so it didnt seem to cross her mind that having that much force on a mans junk can cripple them. I became "Iron balls" at work after that incident.

I had the same thing happen with my binder when one little girl pulled it loose. It was the last time I wore a Velcro one and I played it off like she kicked me in the groin and I sort of slouch-hobbled to the bathroom to fix it.

I like working with kids but man they can ruin passing like champs.

Quote from: Ayden on October 05, 2014, 04:11:26 AM
Dang girl! You are smooth as silk! I couldn't adjust what I had that smoothly when I was wrestling! Thanks for sharing.

I'm a preschool teacher and one time I was in class, which lasts 7 hours. My favorite boy, Ryota, who I call baby-zilla, was raising heck and running around. I picked him up off another boy and somehow that little booger turned around, grabbed my junk and yanked it loose. Fortunately I wear very tight boxer briefs that hold everything place but he did manage to snap my harness. I didnt think too much about it since I was trying to stop the boys from fighting, but the office manager was in the room with me and she yelped and asked me quickly "Are you okay?!" I had to fake being hurt since I'm not out at work and I played it off. When she asked I told her that I have five little brothers, which is true, and she accepted it. She was an only child so it didnt seem to cross her mind that having that much force on a mans junk can cripple them. I became "Iron balls" at work after that incident.

I had the same thing happen with my binder when one little girl pulled it loose. It was the last time I wore a Velcro one and I played it off like she kicked me in the groin and I sort of slouch-hobbled to the bathroom to fix it.

I like working with kids but man they can ruin passing like champs.

Haha.  These are great stories, thanks for sharing.

I have been fortunate that I have never had a packer incident.  When I sit down (well, I squat over public toilets), I hold the packer in my hand as I am going, instead of just letting it sit in my jock strap.  I have heard far too many stories of them dropping onto the bathroom floor.

Quote from: chipper on September 14, 2014, 04:10:30 PM
I don't usually pack but when I do...

LOL - Why am I picturing this guy right now??



Of course he would never experience failure!

<--runs out of the FTM forums giggling-->

I have had my packet fall out onto the bathroom floor when I was just wearing it in briefs (gross, but it was single occupancy so no one saw). But I use a spare parts jock-type harness now, and it would be impossible. I am intrigued by the sewing the underwear pocket idea though. It would be better than a separate harness plus boxer briefs, which is what I do now.