wow we are a minority in the GLBT community and they are a minority themselves and you are all a minority in our community that is just way too much of a minority. I would say we need to raise awareness for you but that is what you are trying to avoid.. so I will just think of you all often and I guess that is some awareness..

Posted on: September 30, 2007, 06:10:37 PM

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on a more serious note if we decied to get a nose job are we supposed to advertise that for the rest of our lives too?

Also, I find it utterly offensive when people think that *I have* a debt (whatever this may be) to them and that *I have* to be out and proud.  Let's remember that that choice between out and stealth is just that, a choice...an entirely personal decision without any expectations or obligations.

Like a dear friend said here once:

QuoteI'm a woman with a transsexual history, not a transsexual, and my history is my business alone.

tink

Exactly! The only debt we have is to be true to ourselves.

Karen Lyn