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Metaphysical ways to correct gender?

Started by makipu, September 18, 2014, 04:55:48 PM

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makipu

Hello, I don't know what kind of spirituality my question will go into because it's somewhat general.  I was wondering if any spiritual people here have any expertise in terms of body fixing (to any extend) towards the gender you really are. 
Example:

(For ftm) Could there be a way like a spell, reiki, certain crystals to "lose weight" hence fat to AT LEAST REDUCE THE FAT of the breasts to make them smaller?  I am trying to think in a reasonable way here. I saw many "gender changing spells" on ebay and it's just a shame that those sellers are playing around with something so serious.

I guess I am thinking of anything but surgery since I can't have it...
I am male because I say so and nothing more.
I don't have to look or act like one therefore.
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Sosophia

There are metaphysical theories concerning extra weight or too much weight of why its like that  , but its more like general and some area like tummy
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Jess42

Quote from: makipu on September 18, 2014, 04:55:48 PM
Hello, I don't know what kind of spirituality my question will go into because it's somewhat general.  I was wondering if any spiritual people here have any expertise in terms of body fixing (to any extend) towards the gender you really are. 
Example:

(For ftm) Could there be a way like a spell, reiki, certain crystals to "lose weight" hence fat to AT LEAST REDUCE THE FAT of the breasts to make them smaller?  I am trying to think in a reasonable way here. I saw many "gender changing spells" on ebay and it's just a shame that those sellers are playing around with something so serious.

I guess I am thinking of anything but surgery since I can't have it...

Nope. I hate to tell you but what you got is what you have to deal with. Those things on Ebay and gender changing spells is rubbish. Don't fall fool to some snake oil salesmen or saleswoman. Things just don't work like that.

The only thing that I can tell you is to study meditation and ways to maybe focus on boosting the natural T in you body and that is iffy. Maybe through meditation after about 40 or 50 years. But no it really doesn't work like that or I would be a knockout by now but way too old to enjoy it. :P
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Monkeymel

Reiki is not a spell technique, and most "internet spells" are (probably) only worth little.

Meditation is the key. I have trained to level 4 reiki, and just use the calming effects to help my body heal and meditate. It is not easy especially post operative but when it flows it can be a deeply relaxing feeling.
What a reiki attunement can offer you is the ability to see onto yourself - and work with the different parts of your ego and past, and help understand the present. The reiki practitioner just opens the doors and provides a channel to your own healing, well being. Will that magically help you produce more T? Probably not. But it might help you relax More into who you are.
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makipu

Thank you for the honest replies everyone. I just wanted to check desperately since there are people here with similar gender errors(I don't like the word "trans" since it personally makes it sound like I am "TRANSforming" into the other gender)

I am not able to meditate properly if I am suffering unfortunately (mainly from binding which has even messed up other parts of my body so I am in so much physical pain to even be at peace). I know I have no hope continuing to live.
I even asked the authors of reiki books and bioenergy healing therapists but nothing. Not even my spirit guides will come when I need help the most.

This is a bit out of topic but has anyone here seen spirits? (I am talking about full human figures whether it may be solid or transparent)
I am male because I say so and nothing more.
I don't have to look or act like one therefore.
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Sosophia

I didnt quite see any spirits but there are who i would sense their presence , or heard doing some sound but mostly i have had spirits touch me , it feels like there is some sort of thing or air going trough my body where they touch me , sometime its a bit deeper than others and different heats too , and there is some emotional aspect to it , where some are there reassuring me or helping me with my emotions , i even made love with some of them , without seeing , just feeling the presence and the "touchs" , altough i m not quite sure who it was i made love with :o.
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Monkeymel

The best key is to focus on your breathing. The kundalini breath (also in the five Tibetans exercises). Breath in to a count of four (seconds or beats). Pause for four. Breath out for four...  (Or three if that is easier)

It takes a lot of practice and is definitely not easy when in pain but it can be done. Every time you are distracted come back to the breathing and count. Like counting sheep at night the body will relax even if your brain is still active.

There is always a reason to live - whether catching the glimpse of a butterfly of a rainbow. I've had spirit animals but always as visions; or occasionally in real life as a glimpse in the fields. I need earth And grass and plants and insects to be grounded. Whether laying in grass or a wood. Staying indoors traps me away from the ground / I miss it. But modern life means we are not attuned any more to those feelings.

Walk quietly. Walk barefoot on grass. And the spirits will come back. They are always there but will not intrude if you cannot listen. Find what's grounds you. What balances your chakras. Ease the tension of the third eye. It is exactly what I am having to do post op... As my body learns to deal with all the wounds and changes.

Good luck. And don't give up.
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Jessica Merriman

Quote from: makipu on September 19, 2014, 05:06:53 PM
This is a bit out of topic but has anyone here seen spirits? (I am talking about full human figures whether it may be solid or transparent)
As a Paramedic/Firefighter I have seen more than my share. I didn't believe in them before my career!!  :o
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Jess42

Quote from: makipu on September 19, 2014, 05:06:53 PM
This is a bit out of topic but has anyone here seen spirits? (I am talking about full human figures whether it may be solid or transparent)

Nope. I even investigate paranormal activity or occurrences or whatever else. I have seen shadows, I have heard voices both recorded and in the ears, I have seen doors close on their own, I've hear footsteps, I have seen human like shapes in a thermal imaging camera or FLIR and I have seen mysterious mists. But I have never seen a full bodied apparition When someone dies and just right after, I would assume that it would be way more possible but investigating hauntings where the person or people have been dead for a long time it may be less possible. I will say I have seen things that defy all logic, but no full bodied apparitions either transparent or solid looking.
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makipu

Thank you, I will give the Kundalini breathing a shot when I am calm.
Also, thanks for sharing your experiences regarding spirits. I haven't seen any figures but I would like to.  The only part I am concerned with is I don't want to see anyone besides the one(s) I ask for and knowing my sensitive body I know my heart will be affected badly if I were to see someone else.

If you don't mind me asking Jessica, were your experiences out of nowhere? I mean to say, did you invite them or you were just naturally able to see them without any effort like opening your third eyes, etc?
I am male because I say so and nothing more.
I don't have to look or act like one therefore.
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VeryGnawty

Quote from: makipu on September 18, 2014, 04:55:48 PM
Hello, I don't know what kind of spirituality my question will go into because it's somewhat general.  I was wondering if any spiritual people here have any expertise in terms of body fixing (to any extend) towards the gender you really are.

It's less a matter of what can be done, I think, compared to how difficult it would be to do it.  You aren't talking about slowing down your heart, or something that is relatively simple to learn with practiced meditation.  You're talking about changing the shape of the body itself.  That's really high level stuff.  You could study and train for years and make no progress.  Even high level magicians (real sorcerers, not stage shows) have difficulty affecting the physical body regardless of how well they can concentrate or how well they understand magic theory.

So, basically, it would take an unordinary person of extreme diligence and dedication to even have a chance of MAYBE changing the gender of the body, with a minimum expected time of years of research before they even begin to have any real progress.

So, for most people, it probably wouldn't be worth the attempt.  There's a reason that occultism is full of people with high ambitions and mediocre results.  Extraordinary results usually take an extraordinary person to achieve them.  If there is someone who has changed the sex of their body by using some mind-over-matter technique, I have not seen them.
"The cake is a lie."
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PinkCloud

I would still recommend the normal way of doing things, going into therapy and taking the medical route. But there are ways. Discussing them might be accompanied with heavy skepticism and disbelief, but I can hold the same cynicism and begrudge organized religions, but both are against forum rules. So here is what I have to say when it comes down to freedom of thought and expression considering your question philosophically:

In magic there are indeed ways to transform. It isn't easy, in fact it may require years of practice. One of the best ways to learn transformation is the emulation of animals. Pick an animal that has the required gift you seek, and study the animal. Learn it's secrets by observing it. You could learn from a fox. A fox can teach you stealth and invisibility. The fox is a master of stealth. By observing it's behavior, you can master it skill and even obtain it. Lots of cultures worshiped animals in order to gain their skills and magic. Most oriental martial arts is based upon emulating animals, their strength and their behavior are routinely integrated in the practice of martial arts. So it has some merit, to the degree your imagination allows it to be.

Not to be confused with Species Dysphoria  ;)

A more practical way:

You could start in working on your inner life. Do you agree that people will judge you on how you express yourself? when you are sad, are people treating you differently? or when happy? So how you think affects reality. It is all about changing the inner world, and project it unto the outer world.

At one time I was so fearful about to get clocked as trans, and indeed the fear of being clocked was enough for someone to clock me. Ask any trans, they all agree that "confidence" is the most important factor in passing. Why is that? because you create reality. When you are certain you are male or female, then this will show through projecting confidence that you are. Your mind is controlling matter by just thinking. Think confident, and you are. It is that simple!

You could perform some spells for yourself. Don't buy anything, it's mostly rubbish anyway.

Before going to bed, tell yourself what you want. Do you want less breasts? ask your subconscious to let it shrink. Say to yourself: no one will notice it, and repeat it before falling asleep. This is one way of training your mind and it is basically a spell for change.

Then when you are ready, someday it might also be surgically removed. In the mean time, you could train the mind to already believe that it shrinks or goes down. When you do, people will pick up on it.

I wish you good luck!
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