Quote from: Jessie_Heart on September 30, 2007, 04:19:43 PM
hey there is nothing wrong with being easy!! >
Live your life as you wish, my dear, but if want to hear some solid advice, listen up: don't you ever give away
anything.
that is true for whether you are just beginning to date your boy, or if you've been in a relationship with him for more than 10 years.
Here's why. Contrary to the fact that easy girls cheapen the product across the board and make it more difficult for the rest of us, actually the opposite is true: by making it too easy for him, he might just lose interest in
you. a) he already knows what the prize is in the crackerjack, and b) you've stolen his opportunity to hunt and pursue you.
a) we girls know that the crackerjack is not really that special. and the prize is usually not that great either. but it's
fun to eat way your down to it. unless you already know what it is. then you just wanna drink some water and get that oversweet taste out of your mouth.
b) boys are hunters and, any boy can tell you that the thrill of the hunt is what really makes it all worth while. they don't even wanna eat that gamey lamb-chop unless you've really made 'em work for it.
so you see? by being easy you take away your boy's fun. and if you take away his fun, he's not gonna wanna play with you anymore.
you may say, if that's how he feels, maybe he wasn't the right one for me. wrong!
you exit the relationship when
you want to. girls have bills to pay and lots of expenses. if you're ready to move on, wait until you have another boy lined up. then the break-up is on
your schedule.
but if you let him get tired of you, it's very likely the break-up will be on
his schedule.
-ell