and think, damn if they transitioned, they would be really pretty!! lol. I must confess I do look at faces and I've found it surprising when you really pick things apart, the male traits on female faces and female traits on male faces. and wow, some guys out there, even some older ones, could be really pretty without much work.
I know this is super shallow lol, I just do it when I'm bored, waiting at the traffic lights etc.

Can't say that has ever crossed my mind. I do however sit on trains looking at some guys and think they'd have a real hard time transitioning - which is awful of me really.

Quote from: Ms Grace on September 27, 2014, 04:51:45 AM
Can't say that has ever crossed my mind. I do however sit on trains looking at some guys and think they'd have a real hard time transitioning - which is awful of me really.

Ms Grace! And I thought I was bad lol at least I was being a glass half full person lol, I think I find most guys who would have a real hard time passing if they did transition kinda hot a lot of times anyway. I know what you mean though, I do actually notice the same thing. I guess we think about it for ourselves so much, especially in the early stages, it's interesting to see what others would have to work with if they were in the same boat as us...

Yes! I do.  And sometimes I am a little jealous of them! How silly!

I think I'm actually going to try this out, for "Halloween" this year. I've heard this is the one day of the year it's actually acceptable tip dress as a girl so I want to do it and see how I feel after the feedback.

Yeah, funny is not it? I have become very keen on noticing female traits in  male faces and vice versa. Sometimes I think- I wonder there is something more and guy is actually trans...

Yes, all the time in fact!

He he he... yes, I confess I do notice men whose faces would allow them to transition easily (without FFS, darm!!).    In Spain this is not frequent, but I was in Sweden this week, and the guy looking after the coat-check at a venue had the most beautiful feminine face.  Mind you, Scandinavians often have gentle features.

But to follow on from MsGrace, when I'm on the metro and I see guys who are so very masculine, a few thoughts do go through my head:

"How happy and un-selfconscious he is being a guy.  I never was like that..."
      "Yummy!   (From time to time)
            "Urgh!  Glad I'm now a girl...(frequently)"
                  "This would require an impossible amount of FFS...."

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When looking at men now I only get as far as, "Ugh! I can't identify with that person at all! I DON'T want to be considered male!"
I've never related easily with men, but now it's all the more difficult even to look at men. As I move toward and into transition, maybe that will change a bit.

On the other hand, lemon_ice, this might be a fun game to play! I'll have to keep it in mind!

Quote from: Ms Grace on September 27, 2014, 04:51:45 AM
Can't say that has ever crossed my mind. I do however sit on trains looking at some guys and think they'd have a real hard time transitioning - which is awful of me really.

I hope I haven't been one of them.

But seriously, I have done exactly that myself...especially with some of the customers at work.

More the opposite. Having lived under the NYC umbrella and known people who know people  who now things, like models on the cover of Cosmo that were really a T, I can help seeing some andro flat assed, skinny no figure at all models with mannish faces and perhaps other tells and wonder..... Is she or isn't she?

All I think when I look at men is would I want to get to know him and let things lead to kissing+more or does this guy creep me out and should I get away from him. 

Um, NO! I am too busy looking for that special someone or at least a date or two. I am trying to get trans off my brain and out of circulation so why would I look at everyone else considering their trans appeal or post transition looks? 

Quote from: KittyKat on September 27, 2014, 09:14:08 AM
All I think when I look at men is would I want to get to know him and let things lead to kissing+more or does this guy creep me out and should I get away from him. 

This!!!! I wish you lived closer Kitty, we could have a great time together out on the prowl! 

Well I live in the best place to live if you ignore the economic cost of living here, NYC. No real issues with people being anti-LBGT including the Transgender part and there's a lot of stuff to do, with lot's of different people to meet.

Lol, yes, just sometimes. There's other times where I look and think "no way" and I feel horrible. Luckily most of them are happy with their manly condition. But when I usually look at guys it's because I think they are hot and would love to call their attention to myself. There are guys who are purely irresistible 

Quote from: Auroramarianna on September 27, 2014, 11:52:59 AM
But when I usually look at guys it's because I think they are hot and would love to call their attention to myself. There are guys who are purely irresistible 

This totally!!! 

Oh yeah, been doing this for years.  Sometimes I look back and wonder if maybe they were stealth FTM.

I only look at guys like that if they've already come out as transgender. I don't actually really pay attention to people otherwise though (though I tend to notice girls that I am extremely jealous of).

Quote from: Abby Claire on September 27, 2014, 01:02:21 PM
I only look at guys like that if they've already come out as transgender. I don't actually really pay attention to people otherwise though (though I tend to notice girls that I am extremely jealous of).

Oh this drives me nuts.  Usually don't like to be around the ones that I am terribly jealous of because the feelings that it triggers.  If I was full time, I don't think it would bother me much.  I don't typically try to guess if people are transgender or even worry about it except maybe one or two cases.  Of course, this is just in my own mind and that's where I draw the line.

YES!!  I do this all the time!  I am really glad its not just me!

The weird part is I am lesbian so its ... Confusing at times.

Interestingly enough I have never  really thought about how happy they are being in the right gender for them, just that they would make awesome girls.  It really gets wierd when I do it to people I know are FTM, because then I feel guilty.

Naturally I never let this affect the way I treat anyone.