Fortunately I pass without makeup even right after an electrolysis session. (Thankfully those are becoming less frequent with the few white hairs I have left.) I don't wear it every day, but I enjoy it and have fun with it. Special occasions, going out dancing, yes I usually wear it, but it's not needed to run to the grocery store. I look at it as a fun thing and not a chore. When I do wear it, I like the natural look, where it looks like I'm not wearing makeup with subtle colors and soft blends. This look pleases me the most. I also only wear mineral based makeup.
My wife on the other hand can't stand most makeup. (occasionally she will wear mineral based makeup.) She prefers not to wear it at all and it has nothing to do with her being gender fluid. Even when she feel extremely feminine, it's not a requirement for her.