Hi shanetastic
I do pray everything works out for you. I haven't been able to get on here for most of the afternoon and I am happy to see that you have chilled some since I was on earlier.

Cindy

Quote from: gothique11 on October 02, 2007, 10:31:46 PM
*hugs* I hope everything works out for you!

Thanks Gothique/Natalie (I'm almost 100% on that sorry if I'm wrong)

Posted on: October 02, 2007, 11:53:14 PM

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Quote from: cindybc on October 02, 2007, 11:49:09 PM
Hi shanetastic
I do pray everything works out for you. I haven't been able to get on here for most of the afternoon and I am happy to see that you have chilled some since I was on earlier.

Cindy

Thanks Cindy, hopefully this will level out soon.

I think you are making the right decisions. It is good to see you are moving on and taking care of things. (instead of just wallowing in self pity like i might) I am rooting for you!

Okay everything is back to normal.  *phew* Thanks for all the help everyone.

(and got an 87% on my mid term so phew)

Thank you all.

Hi  shanetastic
Congratulations of your mid term, and please stay cool until you see your therapist.

Cindy

Darn service provider here was up and down like lady of the night's night gown.

QuoteOkay everything is back to normal.  *phew* Thanks for all the help everyone.

(and got an 87% on my mid term so phew)

Thank you all.

Hi, Shanetastic,

You're welcome.

Good going on the exam.  A solid B looks good from here.

You mention that everything is back to "normal" for whatever normal is in your life.  That's great to hear and we're both relieved for that, you more so than me, of course.

May I make a suggestion?  Given the upheaval through you have recently passed, grab its lesson before it gets lost in daily living.  The lesson is to work on maintaining your balance and poise regardless of the furor surrounding you.  You are lucky if you learn this when you're young.  Take a fool's advice and don't let anything get you upset.  I didn't suggest that you ignore everything, just don't let it shake your tree and make you fall out, so to speak.

Platitudes?  Sure.  Stale advice?  Nope, as current as this moment. 

You will go through many more tests on your journey through life in general and transitioning in particular.  Stay cool.  I have found that 90% of what I feared most never happened to me, and the 10% that did wasn't all that bad. 

Weigh your words to others and measure your response.  When choosing your words, make sure that they are no more ballistic than the situation that you're addressing.  Sometimes the best reply is to say nothing.

I hope that this is of use to you.  If not, I would appreciate knowing because I can get lost in my own pontification.

Wing Walker
Resident Gas Bag

Quote from: Wing Walker on October 04, 2007, 03:42:06 AM

QuoteOkay everything is back to normal.  *phew* Thanks for all the help everyone.

(and got an 87% on my mid term so phew)

Thank you all.

Hi, Shanetastic,

You're welcome.

Good going on the exam.  A solid B looks good from here.

You mention that everything is back to "normal" for whatever normal is in your life.  That's great to hear and we're both relieved for that, you more so than me, of course.

May I make a suggestion?  Given the upheaval through you have recently passed, grab its lesson before it gets lost in daily living.  The lesson is to work on maintaining your balance and poise regardless of the furor surrounding you.  You are lucky if you learn this when you're young.  Take a fool's advice and don't let anything get you upset.  I didn't suggest that you ignore everything, just don't let it shake your tree and make you fall out, so to speak.

Platitudes?  Sure.  Stale advice?  Nope, as current as this moment. 

You will go through many more tests on your journey through life in general and transitioning in particular.  Stay cool.  I have found that 90% of what I feared most never happened to me, and the 10% that did wasn't all that bad. 

Weigh your words to others and measure your response.  When choosing your words, make sure that they are no more ballistic than the situation that you're addressing.  Sometimes the best reply is to say nothing.

I hope that this is of use to you.  If not, I would appreciate knowing because I can get lost in my own pontification.

Wing Walker
Resident Gas Bag

Thanks Wing Walker for everything.  It's a hard concept to grasp for such a young person (well I don't think I'm young but probably everyone else does).  I'm really suprised how things work out I must say.  One day, I was totally going insane so to speak and everything was going wrong at once.  Then the other day everything is back to normal, except better in a sense.  Now today in class the teacher gave a 9% curve because the class average was a 62 on the test.  So with that now I got a 96% on the test, and my parents and me are fine again.  I found a support group as well and ended up having an awesome time at that, and finally got to meet other people like myself and interact.  So I must say, too bad it's impossible to maintain and equilibrium in a sense, heh.  Normally it's all up or all down, so hopefully next time I can relax more about it and hopefully keep my head straight.

Thanks again.

Hey Shanetastic. Next time you see yourself slip, let me know and I'll lend you my own personal hand basket that I use to go to hell in. As for the gas bag and pontificator, don't worry none about her, she only bites ankles.  That's, ok,  Really though, I am happy to see that things are working out for you. I'll be here in the cheer leaders box waiting with my pom poms.

Cindy

A 96 ain't too shabby.

Stay well and try to stay on-balance.  There are many people here who care about you and how you're doing.

Wing Walker