Hi ladies,

I would like to share a story that happened earlier tonight.
Me and my friend were hanging out, as usual, and were talking about FFS and how is it easy to over do it. This friend know that I am trans* and has been very supportive and accepting. In order to prove my point I was showing her pictures of what I think is over done FFS. So I started with the first one and her reply was "it is a dude" , I was like that is very offensive, this is a translady and what you said offended me. She replied with that " I don't know this person and I don't care if they get offended by the truth". Long story short we had a fight and she said sorry after ward. This is the first time she does something like that.

I know this person for a long time and she just doesn't have a filter in her mouth and would say whatever she want to say, but her saying such thing made me question what would she say about me behind my back !!

What would you do if you were in my shoe ?       

This person lacks integrity. These are typically shallow and fake people. It is up to you whether you want to be around people like this but I don't believe it is good for you.

"As one would speak of others, so such they will speak of you when you are vacant from the room."


Something like what that person said would be a reg flag for me and I'd keep a wide berth.

I don't like throwing away friendships. You let your friend know you were hurt. That's all you can do. She obvious doesn't care.

I would adjust downward your esteem for this person, and certainly be wary of giving them your trust or taking too seriously what they say.