Quote from: NickSister on October 04, 2007, 05:37:30 PM
I don't think I would like to live in a world without gender distinctions. This probably sounds odd coming from an androgyne
Not necessarily -- and in fact, now that you raised the point, I agree. At least for me, an androgyne identity does not really mean a desire to discard gender altogether; it's just that the gender
I happen to have is neither of the two main ones. I'd like to be seen as what I am, not make it equally hard to see others as what they are. A sharper picture of gender instead of a blurrier one, if you will.
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I keep hearing that people would like a world where gender does not matter. I'm the opposite. I want to matter, just not as something used to discriminate.
Right on. Having a diversity of gender identities and expressions is a good thing, and a world that had no gender differences would be a much more boring place. Still, to be able to enjoy that fully, glass ceilings must come down and people must stop beating each other over gender. And yes, that last part applies not only to the redneck who does it physically to his wife and the ->-bleeped-<- next door, but also to the occasional feminist who badmouths her opponent just because he happens to be male, and to the kid who tells eir classmate that she can't climb trees because she's a girl.
But yes, what we need is more tolerance and acceptance of differences, not more uniformity.
Nfr