Well last night was fun.  For those of you that don't know, I'm Sarah, MTF and I work on a drillship in the gulf of mexico.  Well there are two areas of the ship with bathrooms.  One set is at the front where all the rooms and stuff is.  And the other bathroom is on the very back of the boat.  But see the boat is 1/4th a mile long.  So I don't want to make that walk jsut cause I had coffee.  The back bathroom is unisex, two stalls in a room.  The policy is if your female you knock and make sure its empty then grab a magnetic sign off the wall and put it over the door handle.  the sign says

Stop!
Female Inside

Simple but hey it works.  Only the other two girls got pulls to other boats.  So its just me.  Anyways it was early in my shift, 3am and I went to use the bathroom.  Someone had changed the sign so it said,

Stop
"Female" Inside

Needless to say I was pissed.  The up shot is that the higher ups backed me.  They are looking for the person and if the find him or anyone else, that person will be fired on the sopt.  And they are adding a lock on the inside of the bathroom door.  So I can jsut go in and lock it.  No sign to get graffiti.

Why do people have to be so horrible?

I wish I knew the answer to that, but I think many times they are just trying to get attention and see what response they get either. No matter what the cause they need to grow up and get a life that doesn't include doing things like that. I hope catch whoever it was.
Mariah

Quote from: Jennifer.L on October 11, 2014, 09:06:18 AM

Why do people have to be so horrible?

Dear Jennifer,

I am sorry some sh!the@d has to show off their ignorance.  Maybe, one day they will evolve.

Glad the higher ups have your back!

Cate

some people carry mutated Cro-Magnon genes and some times they flash back to a time when they lived in caves and ate raw meat

Sorry you had this happen. I hope the person is found.

*hugs*

Sorry to here about the problems you are having. I think its idiots like that find your life more interesting than there's and it makes them focus on you. They are simpletons that are easy amused at stupid sh@t like that. Best of luck to you and a great big hug from me to you!!

hugs,

Melissa Ann

I'm sure they thought they were sooooooo funny, that it was "just a joke"...they'll be laughing out their @$$ if they get caught. Some people are just jerks and I hope he gets taught a lesson. I work in a mostly female environment, I can't imagine what it would be like on a boat with a whole bunch of men.

Sigh!

Hugs, hope you catch the guy.

Where I work there is a lot of "funny" peoples like that but well... They learned that the little gentle me may become a little bit psycho and do worst to them so it haven't last long before they stopped.

Surprisingly now that assume myself and proved myself to everyone they started to accept me more and more. I've even learn by a good friend that some of the mens that were "joking" on me are now kind of attracted by me. Pretty funny.

I hope you'll be able to live without this kind of bad reminders.

I can just imagine how bad it can be in your profession. All I can offer is hugs and I hope they catch the "person" who did it.

Oh I'm sure they thought it was funny, right up tell the 6am meeting when their section supervisor pulled them aside and let told them that if the higher ups caught them, they would be fired on the spot.  The people in charge didn't really try to figure out who it was.  They where going more for a NEVER AGAIN bend.  Basically if it happens again, someone is definitely getting fired.  So make sure your buddies fly strait or they might get you fired.  This is like the only time is safer to be the victim. 

I'm glad the companies are in your corner on handling this.

We both know that the mouth breather contingent is well represented in the the oil patch.

Hugs, dear. Sounds awful. You don't deserve that.

Quote from: Jennifer.L on October 11, 2014, 09:06:18 AM
Why do people have to be so horrible?

The more of a low-life you are, the more you need to feel superior to someone else.

I do not understand the big event?? Did some just change female to "female" on a little sign? If that's all that happened it seems mostly harmless? Anyway it seems your mgt. people are serious so I guess you will not have any more trouble. Be careful way out there on some big boat with maybe some mean type men.

Ann, it's like calling a black person a black "Person"  vs. a white person.  It's wildly insulting.  And even if you think it's mild.   Its still discrimination based on my gender. and only my gender and WILDY illegal

If I was in your situation I'd be quite upset because if I understand correctly it's extremely offensive. by the way, your avatar looks great

oh you understand it jsut the way it was meant.  and ty!

How would they like it if the sign said, "only REAL men may enter?"
Because obv some of them wouldn't be able to go in.
(By real men I mean a real man wouldn't do the thing that he did, a juvenile teen boy might. This guy was lesser than other men)

Whoever did that was more immature than a child...it was quite offensive what he did and it's a shame he wasn't caught and fired.

Hopefully everything will be smooth sailing for you from now on.

I agree that it is very offensive.