Few gays I've met knew anything at all about trans people. All the ones I got to know and who took the time to get to know me would now fight for us to be included. It's not that I'm charming, it's just that I educated them what our life is truly like. Once they knew that, they were okay with us.
Politicians run from being labeled discriminatory. Supporting trans exclusive anything is the same as supporting discrimination. They need to be reminded of that. They need to be told, in a public setting, that if they support ENDA, without including trans people, they will be supporting prejudice and discrimination. If they do that to us, they can do it to anyone. Label them prejudiced and discriminatory and let's see how they react.
Julie