I agree, I say go for it. You can have fun and at the same time test the waters with people you are close to. Dressing in "costume" was one of the first socially therapeutic gender things I experienced. Truly one of the best feelings. It is also how I got my name

Just watch out for the rise and fall, I remember the comedown was pretty harsh when I had to go back to male mode. Yes, it's kind of like a drug to be accepted for how you see yourself- even if just partially in "costume" form.
When the night is over, just remember that you have your whole future ahead of you. Enjoy the cookies!