Hi there. I was looking for a thread I read some time ago that was about peoples estimated time when they started to "male fail". Tried the search button with no luck  and was just wanted to read again. Also i know I am not anywhere close and I'm not in a rush,  but was just curious?

Sorry again if this is the wrong place

I remember that thread too... Short answer for me is that I was taken for female consistently by about three months in, and at six months I couldn't convince someone I was a guy even in men's clothes with my hair pulled back and a man's ID (name and gender). I consider the latter to be true "male fail," since I was TRYING to pass for a guy!

Was it this thread?

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,173348.0.html

or it could be this

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,141411.0.html

Yes, I think that's the one!

A "male fail" is a truly pleasant experience, even if a little bit annoying Some time ago I've visited a psychologist after breaking down and needing some sick leave from work. As I was explaining her what was wrong at the time, including being pre-op (I didn't call it like this, I just said what was between my legs), she insisted that I actually mean a mega-clitoris and that it's nothing to be ashamed of. She just didn't believe me, saying I'm attractive, and I've got a female voice, so I just can't be what I say! I had to show her my ID, only then did she believe me

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I appreciate the help : )