Technically I don't like the word phobic since I'm not scared of them. But I have this hhhmmmm dislike of them like I wish the men would not try to holla at me same with the genetic women. When they speak I respond a lil cold with a snarl (unless I catch myself ) And I prefer to just deal with lbgt (even tho they are fake as hell and shady but at least they are my people ). So is that normal ? I mean I was never really attacked by Hereros but I vicariously live through other lbgt violent stories and it's getting back to me in my 20's rage levels ... Sorry if this don't make sense


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Quote from: TinaVane on November 05, 2014, 06:57:22 PM
I prefer to just deal with lbgt (even tho they are fake as hell and shady but at least they are my people ).

Why would you want to hang out with people that you yourself have labeled as fake and shady? I despise fake people and there is no way in hell I could stand to be around someone like that. I would rather spend my entire life alone than be around people that I knew were a bunch of fake douchebags.

Quote from: Laura Squirrel on November 05, 2014, 07:03:38 PM
Why would you want to hang out people that you yourself have labeled as fake and shady. I despise fake people and there is no way in hell I could stand to be around someone like that. I would rather spend my entire life alone than be around people that knew were a bunch of fake douchebags.

Well that is true but it's like folks comment on my behavior in the lbgt community from associates to docs saying crap like I'm depressed because I like to be alone ... And plus it's not that many ts in anchorage ( I have not met or seen any but I have not been looking ). I wish the one from fairbanks (Stevie) lived here tho [emoji17][emoji17][emoji17]


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Seeing as Gays make up apron. 3-10% of the population, and transgener only .3 or so of that, it sounds like you're going to have a very small source for finding friends/mates, especially since you said that some of those in the LGBT community were fakes and bad also..?

Even though I understand the damage and cruelty some CIS people cause the trans community, to discount all of them and be phobic or however you feel against them, seems no better than how some CIS people feel and talk about us as an entire group....?

Heterophobia doesn't exist because they are the majority and we will always be a minority, the same applies for homophobia, racism, etc... All we can do, is have prejudice in them, but since we are the ones that can discriminate them, then no you CAN'T be hetero-phobic.

The fact that they're the majority makes it all the more reasonable to fear them. Phobias aren't rational, even if there are good reasons to fear something. It's the level of fear measured against the real threat that determines a phobia.

Why would you choose to judge someone solely for their orientation? People don't choose to be hetero any more than anyone chooses to be homo, bi, or ace. Even if they did, that doesn't reflect on who they are as a person.

Quote from: Edge on November 06, 2014, 12:13:24 PM
Why would you choose to judge someone solely for their orientation? People don't choose to be hetero any more than anyone chooses to be homo, bi, or ace. Even if they did, that doesn't reflect on who they are as a person.

Excatly..

Quote from: Edge on November 06, 2014, 12:13:24 PM
Why would you choose to judge someone solely for their orientation? People don't choose to be hetero any more than anyone chooses to be homo, bi, or ace. Even if they did, that doesn't reflect on who they are as a person.

It's cute to think that


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