Quote from: LordKAT on November 10, 2014, 12:03:37 AM
Nope, but no trans friends in that description either.

I'm hurt, I thought we were friends Ken! 

Quote from: Mark3 on November 10, 2014, 12:46:40 PM
Well, in some other forums here there have been some very negative topics made about CIS gender people, some seemed almost to the point of phobia or hate.. I for one, was just curious how we felt as a group.

Given what many people endure at the hands of cis folk, a certain mistrust is to be expected.

I've narrowed my cis male friends down to just a few, the rest are no longer around or are just acquaintances. Then there is my Bro-in-law and his SO, two GQ gay guys that I love who are most trustworthy. I have several cis female friends that I trust, of course my SO and some of her friends then my hair stylist, she knows all about me and we are close. Generally I don't put a lot of personal information out there for the gossips, you'd think a hair stylist would cover those bases for me anyway.  Then there's my newest TG friend Julie, I expect we will become long term friends, she is a real keeper!

I agree about Julie..! She's a peach.!! <3

Oh, and you're not bad yourself Shanny..!!!
Sorry I didn't add you above..

I have lots of friends, both cis and trans.  Good people are just that, and I tend to surround myself with them.   

I basically purged all of the a*holes from my life, but I did it without burning any bridges.   If any of them ever come across a rectocranial extractor tool, they can come back.

Quote from: Mark3 on November 10, 2014, 03:03:01 PM
I agree about Julie..! She's a peach.!! <3

Oh, and you're not bad yourself Shanny..!!!
Sorry I didn't add you above..

Many people I value, but they are more of acquaintance or they are friends but not what I would call close friends. I keep my most personal things to myself.

i share different things with different friends. got most of my issues covered, but only one or two by the same friend.
it works pretty well, but it would be nice to have someone who just knows me, without anything having to even be said or talked about.
there are a couple who are close to that, and it's both nice and frustrating.

I've got a couple of close friends, and my boyfriend, who is as cis as cis can be. 

I know cis people who probably would be understanding of my situation, but I choose not to tell them. I guess I just don't want to find out if they would reject me.

Hm, so I guess my answer is ultimately no.

EDIT: Nix that. I know one other cis person who has similar feelings that I do and would listen to what I tell her. I just lost touch with her.