Hi yea, As my name goes I would like to be Sandra....

I have known all my life that I am different than most of the other men I know and work with. I have nothing in common with men I hate football and other male interests and I get isolated from their conversations and I also hate the way they treat women as if there toys to be used or worse.....
I am 45 and married with 2 children aged 13 and 15. I have dressed as a woman in private for fear of loosing my family. But I cant go on living my life as a lie I feel so desperate at times but also selfish to want to be something different.
I wanted to join this site for to understand what is wrong with me and what I should do about it.
Thank You so much for reading this
Buy the way I am from Ireland a very Catholic country and I don't have anywhere else to turn

A big warm welcome Sandra!!  You will find all the information you will ever need to help you here and plenty of good people to give you personal experience stories. Relax, dig right in and welcome to the family! 

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Welcome Sandra to Susan's family.

Look around being there is lots to read and questions to be asked.

Hugs

Sandra of Ireland, welcome to Susan's Place! I'm from Boston. Get busy posting and I'll see you around the site!

Hugs, Devlyn

Hi Sandra and welcome to Susan's. It's not selfish to want to live an authentic life.

Hi Sandra,

A big warm welcome to Susan's place. Always nice to welcome another sister to our growing family. There are many beautiful people here that are going through, or have gone through the same feelings and emotions you are. There is a vast array of information and many resources available here. Everything is right at your fingertips, so pull up a chair, relax and let your fingers do the walking. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you, honey. There are many, many people like us and the world. Take your time search the site for any and all information you need and don't be afraid to ask questions. I wish you nothing but the best of luck in your journey and may the Angels always look upon you and help guide you on your path.

Hugs,

Melissa Ann

Hi Sandra! Welcome to Susan's!