16 days ago, a wife looks for a lawyer, tells him about husband wanting to transition..  and files for Separation.

Last week, her lawyer calls another lawyer.  Said he has a client whose husband is transitioning and how to address said transwoman.  second lawyer tells him.

Today, transwoman picks a lawyer at random, based on friends recommendations.

New lawyer looks at name, of client, and her lawyer and tells transwoman, wifes lawyer is the one that called for advice last week.

Wife's lawyer told her, he had no experience in trans issues.  Wife never told transwoman 1) THAT wifes lawyer was calling for outside advice, nor 2)  WHO he called.

Wife, is mine

Transwoman, is me...

Wifes lawyer called my newly picked (JUST TODAY) lawyer ...

THAT is the definition of irony.