I need to know.... this guy sat directly in front of me at a party all nighy, had his feet near me, waited for me to come back... Today he put his hands on my chair more than three times (claim his territory body languge). Im like 90 percent sure hes into me.... but he doesnt outright and tell me...

And im like at the verge of completely turning cold...

I dont want to be a weirdo and send him a text mssage but he told me about some politician on youtube. I could send him a txt and say it was funny... that way he knows im interesred.... he needs to know im into him. And i was really cold because im at work...  it was going to get ackward since no one was at the table. I left without saying goodbye but i said i  was bored....  it wasnt a date but it sure felt like one.

He was into me... at least i felt it. I was into him but i avoided him too but he never left. Oh and he like what he saw... because he said i look good. It was on.

Maybe you should ask him out.

I screw up so big... he was giving me his undivided attention but i act like a nervous wreck. I was so afraid.what peoplee were thinking co workers...

At the end he was like its ok like he understood me?

But oh gawd. I dont know if i can recover this....

Do you think if I sent a text like this around 10 am

"Funny clip thanks for telling me. Im apologize if I came across rude I dont really like social functions"

Do you think that will make him think Im too direct??? I dont want to cross the lines of professionalism but i want him.

Directly what? Directly telling him the clip was funny? If that then yes

Quote from: Seras on November 21, 2014, 07:01:10 AM
Directly what? Directly telling him the clip was funny? If that then yes

I feel like hes full blowm.into.me.but he doesnt tell me. All this sexual tension is too much.

I want him. He looks like he wants me but theres this.insible wall of protocols and professionalism we dont cross.

Its nearly.unbearable because we cant even talk without feeling this way.... hes all giggly but i feel like a total reject for ignoring his conversations. I want to push that wall... enough is enough. I want him. Even if it will only last a month.

Thats a month ill.never forget.

I got to scheme the proper text.

I don't think you should overthink it. Things don't normally end well when you overthink them. If you think the clip was funny just tell him that. If you wanna tell him you don't like big social events and you would rather the two of you go for a coffee then tell him that

I mean all I say should be with a grain of salt cause I don't do dating or anything really but hey simple works with most things

Quote from: Seras on November 21, 2014, 07:13:21 AM
I don't think you should overthink it. Things don't normally end well when you overthink them. If you think the clip was funny just tell him that. If you wanna tell him you don't like big social events and you would rather the two of you go for a coffee then tell him that

I mean all I say should be with a grain of salt cause I don't do dating or anything really but hey simple works with most things

Yeah... im just going to make a simple statement.... and then let that cookie crumble. At worst... i apologize for being rude lol. Its up to him to take it to the next lvl. Yep...

But timing is everything.

Ahhh
Im upset. I sent the message and he was blah blah its alright i understand you. Youre a good worker.

All this tension for that come on. I see it in his eyes.  Its there. Its like that scene Kiss the Girl in the little mermaid.

And he obviously took his time... since it was a little lengthy and an hour later.

Lawd.  I got one more party to attend too this weekend...