Good bye all. 

For those interested:

paramedic822@yahoo.com

It has been a joy and privilege, thank you. Now maybe this site can heal with my absence.

I love you all. 

Why? But why?

What happened this time?

I hope you reconsider, but best wishes if this is it.

Hugs, Devlyn

Aw, Jess. Don't do this. We need you.

I will no longer shoulder all the blame for the NB issue and controversies. I was not the sole person who contributed to that situation. I cannot let this drag me down and destroy the progress I have made in my life. I started to feel like a failure in this situation and that just can't be. I have given a vast amount of time, experience, emotions and assistance and it was all for nothing. Neg rep points flooded in the last few weeks which is something I have only given once the whole time I have been here. No, time to go. No talk or support will change that now.

Thank you all for past support and words of kindness. Maybe a smarter person will fill my position here. I wish the best to everyone. 

Your reputation is telling me something different...

Quote from: Jessica Merriman on November 30, 2014, 05:51:27 PM
I will no longer shoulder all the blame for the NB issue and controversies. I was not the sole person who contributed to that situation. I cannot let this drag me down and destroy the progress I have made in my life. I started to feel like a failure in this situation and that just can't be. I have given a vast amount of time, experience, emotions and assistance and it was all for nothing. Neg rep points flooded in the last few weeks which is something I have only given once the whole time I have been here. No, time to go. No talk or support will change that now.

Thank you all for past support and words of kindness. Maybe a smarter person will fill my position here. I wish the best to everyone. 

sorry  this has happened

I looked over reported posts for well over a month trying to find one single report on any of Jessica's posts, there wasn't one relating to non-binaries. Jessica you shouldn't let people get to you like this.

My dear Jessica,

Please reconsider your decision... I for one, hold you on great esteem, admiration,  and respect... and enjoy your posting for their directness and clarity... we need you,

Best

Peky

Quote from: Susan on November 30, 2014, 06:01:27 PM
I looked over reported posts for well over a month trying to find one single report on any of Jessica's posts, there wasn't one relating to non-binaries. Jessica you shouldn't let people get to you like this.

ditto

I think you're a great lady with some really helpful insights, and you do an excellent job keeping us all in line I do hope you'll consider staying, but understand if leaving is something you feel would be best for you.

Quote from: peky on November 30, 2014, 06:03:16 PM
My dear Jessica,

Please reconsider your decision... I for one, hold you on great esteem, admiration,  and respect... and enjoy your posting for their directness and clarity... we need you,

Best

Peky

ditto

 

Well this sucks. You're such a sweet lady Jessica (at least in my opinion and experience) Expect a kind email headed your way in the near future

Take a break perhaps, but please keep in mind I'd like to see you return.

OMG,I am shocked.You were always sweet and were an awesome moderator,you set the tone as a mod for what I hope to be like someday.Thank you for your help and all you've done and please stay

'hugs' xx

Jessica, come on now. You're one of the reasons I enjoy Susan's. I enjoy your life experiences especially since I am an ex LEO and can relate. Just another "don't leave" voice. Pretty please?