Quote from: wishy on October 22, 2007, 08:38:10 AMAnd the middle of Europe ain't that far away... like a few.... erm... country thingies.... away >.>

Yeah, right...it would have been way more intelligent to check where you come from BEFORE answering wouldn't it? 
I've even been to the UK once. (It's a sad truth that during that week I've seen the only two gay persons I've ever (knowingly) seen all my life. )


But to come back to topic:
Most people advise avoiding dyed hair and not completely basic haircuts. In my suroundings, though, I see a lot of boys of my age (well, I'm 18) who sport exactly that kind of look.
I would say that at my age it's easier to get away with such things but you really don't see many adult or older men with (unnaturally) dyed hair colors.

i plan on just growing my hair out. And i also plan on getting a colour. I had it dyed black... but it's faded to brown now... pondering on getting that bleached blond look.... pondering   

As someone who had long hair when I was a teenager and lived as a male, I might be able to help. If you have any hair on your neck, dye it or find another way to make it stick out. One thing males don't seem to pay any attention to when they tie their long hair back is the hair on their neck....but everybody else will notice it.

Both you Wishy and Incubi are very attractive and both look very feminine......I'm not sure if you are both Female to Male or not but you both look female.

Men usually have more agressive feature's and usually look like they are scowling at lot of the time and you need to find a way to harden up your face. Also Wishy the female hairline gives it away. Transision is really hard for most of us and it's a very hard thing to do successfully. 

Hair isn't an issue, some guys have long hair, some girls have long hair and cut a genetic females hair and she still looks female and guys with long hair still look like guys with long hair. The two genders are very different and male or female feature's are hard to eradicate which ever way you are going...