This took more courage than I thought.
As a 40-something person, my hairline had receeded a lot. So out came a wig, which I've used ever since I started HRT and began living as me. I just gelled my hair, brushed it back, and popped the wig on top. I'll confess that it felt like a part of my armour, protecting me from critical eyes. It also made me feel less than authentic, but then I realised that we wear makeup, high heels, push-up bra's...perfectly authentic really, in that context.
Two weeks ago I had a hair transplant, and had to stop using the wig. And surprisingly, my real hair is quite usable after a full year of not cutting it. It's not as elegant as the nylon stuff but it's real and it's mine!
Very weirdly, it's gone from straight to tight curls, which have taken some time to get used to. Some friends say that HRT has caused this change - I don't know.
So it's a 1980's "big hair" look for me now (Aaaaaaargh!), and patience until my temples fill in and I can do something I like better with this bushy thing!
Wonder what my work colleages are going to say... And I need to change my avatar here...

Julia