Quote from: 2124abc on January 02, 2015, 04:06:46 PM
omg! yesss! thank u soo much!
I was worried since my clit is soooo high above the vaginal hole that my sex life was screwed! since i dont actually know much about how orgasms work its soo good to hear this story! I'm nearly 30 days post.
im wondering maybe since its prostate simulation what the role of HRT is in all this? like if i was only on HRT for one year before having SRS (even tho im still on HRT) will that affect the orgasm occuring... cos I'm pretty sure hormones affect the sensitivity of the prostate right?
p.s. and also damn for me, im nowhere near large dilator at my stage!
There are two types of female orgasms. The first, clitoral orgasm, is similar to the male orgasm which is transmitted via the nerves at the head of the penis and is used to create your clitoris. Depending on your physical dimensions and sexual position, and partner, you may experience a clitoral orgasm during sexual activity. This is similar to cis-women who may or may not experience a clitoral orgasm during sex.
The second, vaginal orgasm, occurs via vaginal stimulation and penetration. It is speculated that surrounding the entrance of the vagina are sensory nerves that are transmitted via the pudendal nerve bundle. This tissue in the foetus develops into the prostate in males and the G-spot in females. Realize that we are all start as female in the womb and sexual dimorphism doesn't start to occur until the sixth week of pregnancy.
The prostate is not affected by GCS surgery and remains in it's original position. As a result it ends up near the entrance of your vagina. Though instead of surrounding the vagina like a ring, it becomes a knob or button near the top of the vagina just inside the entrance. Stimulation of the prostate is similar to the stimulation a cis-woman experiences during vaginal penetration.
A vaginal orgasm takes longer to occur and the physical feelings are quite different than a clitoral/penile orgasm. Clitoral orgasms appear to feel like a building sensation that results in a feeling of release. A vaginal orgasm is more like an itch that results in fulfillment, satiation, and a bodily tingling sensation.
The effect of HRT reduces the size of the prostate, but not the number of nerves. So stimulation is the same regardless of your estradial/testosterone ratio.
Also, the size and depth of your vagina actually is not an important goal. All that is necessary is to be able to have comfortable, satisfying intercouse with your partner. It is not necessary to have a vagina that is like a section of the Alaskan Pipeline unless your partner's name is Trigger. The primary purpose of dilation is to prevent the tissue of the neo-vagina from healing closed during recovery of surgery. Expanding the size and depth of the vagina prepares you for sexual activity, but again, it shouldn't be an end unto itself.
-Sandy
