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My First Bra

Started by Sandy74, November 01, 2014, 09:59:17 PM

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Sandy74

A couple days ago I went to Walmart and decided to look for a bra to buy and spent about ten or fifteen minutes in the bra area until I found some clearance bras and found my size which is like 42D and I found a pair that were red and lacy and they usually sell for like $19 but these ones were like $5 so I thought bonus and so I got them and continued to look around and found a bra and panty set that were light blue and satin.
   The matching panties have like a white mesh where my vagina would be if I had one and its so sexy. I bought those as well and then went home and first thing I did was try both of them on and at first I found it difficult to put them on until I found a trick to do so and I would attach the back and then pull them around to the front and put the straps over my shoulders and there it was. I am currently wearing the red bra with some boy short panties that I bought earlier that are pink and they are so comfortable.

   I hope to buy some breast forms soon so I can fill out the bras that I do have and I am sure once I get those I am sure my interests in bras will just sky rocket from that point forward. I guess I am just wearing the bra so I can get used to the feel of them and perhaps sometime this winter I will wear panties and a bra and tights because nobody will have a clue whats under my male clothes. I want to get something that tucks in my penis that I have seen online as well. It just feels so nice to be feminine like this. I love looking in the mirror and I wish I had a better body for this but I will have to deal with the one that I got, I don't look like a very feminine woman.
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LivingTheDream

You have much more guts than I do lol! No way I would've spent that long in that area when I was doing that.

The first one I bought that wasn't my mom's or something I stole (bad me :( ) I got from a 24/7 supermarket because they were 24/7 and because they had those automated check out lanes so I could do so w/o getting "caught". During high school, would sometimes sneak out of my house at like 3 am (mom stayed up late...how inconsiderate of her!), walk a mile to the store, walk around, ditch the undercover security guard they had, run over to that area and basically grab w/e I noticed/liked during my initial "recon/ditch the security guard" phase lol, then check myself out, pay and leave asap lol. Didn't bother looking at sizing, just grabbed w/e looked cute or unique or different.

You could try water balloons until you get some breastforms, those were prolly my favorite things to use as boobs. They are squishy, have some weight to em, bounce, all that good stuff, and as long as you don't make em too big, shouldn't have to worry about having em pop.

Winter is the perfect time to wear em outside indeed! Last winter I think was the first time I think I started doing so. At least there's one good thing about winter and being freezing cold all the time.
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Katy

If you are really interested in wearing a bra stealthily, you might consider purchasing a one-size fits all sports bra.  It will be a constant reminder of who you are without announcing very much to the world. 

Regarding your body, we all have challenges in that area.  They may not necessarily be the same challenges, but they are there.  Next time you are at Walmart take some time for some people watching.  A majority of the females you observe will also have "body challenges."  Again they likely are not the same ones with which we must contend, but they are there. 

Over time, after some (much is probably more accurate) trial and error, you will find out what clothing helps to minimize and, to a degree, mask those imperfections.  It is a lesson I'm still trying to learn. 
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SarahVA

I buy a bra with a smaller cup size (B) to wear under my "male" shirt when out.  I also don't usually fill the cups with my "boobs."  It is a bit more subtle that way but I still have the feeling.  Of course, maybe I just shouldn't care!
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jasellebelle

My first bra I bought online at forever21. It was really nice and I was so excited to try it. It was my first time dressing and I apparently got the wrong size and it split in half lol. I am pretty thin but I underestimated how petite women really are. As LivingTheDream said, you have some guts lol I will take my chances online again
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Stephanie2

I couldn't remember this earlier, since it was a few years ago, but my first bra was bought at Freshpair online. They sell both men and women undergarments, so that I got away with ordering from them without causing too much attention from a nosey sister. Since I also ordered some V-neck t-shirts with the order and hiding the bra. The size was 40B at that time. It was a little bit wrinkled when I put it on, as I think I was only an A cup then. Being a sport bra, it wasn't too bad. I eventually grew into it. It stretches, so now there are no more wrinkles. Later, ordered matching panties.
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Patszy

I used to go into TJ Max or Ross.  I was lucky enough in the beginning to have a female friend that helped me get prepared and figure out my sizes.  I also used to use water balloons, I liked the way I could vary what size I was going to be. 
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Patricia2

I remember the first bra I purchased.  Back then, there was no internet, so ordering online was not an option.  I drove around for hours looking for a small out of the way shop where I could get in and out without anyone seeing me.  When I finally found one, I went in and tried to use the "I'm buying something for my girlfriend" routine.  I was so nerveous, I just grabbed the first bra and pany set I came to.  It must have been obvious what I was up to because the sales lady stopped me and helped me pick out a size and suprisingly enough, the bra was a little tight, but close to fitting.  Overall I was pretty happy with what I purchased.  I went back to that shop several times after that until one time the shop owner told me she remembered me.  That kind of scared me off for good.  I did go back there years later though. :angel:     
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CaptFido87

Wow! You people have nerves of steel. Idk how you could just walk into a store and buy a bra/ panties :embarrassed: :laugh:. I simply got too nervous to do such a thing so I ordered my first bra online. Perhaps once I've gotten over the fear I'd like to go into a store and look at stuff and in person to get a proper feel for it.
Hi I'm Marty. I'm a MTF Transgender who wants nothing more than to finally let Samantha (Sammi) come out and play.


As of: 03/07/2015
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Valerie Rose

Quote from: jasellebelle on December 05, 2014, 10:48:28 PM
My first bra I bought online at forever21. It was really nice and I was so excited to try it. It was my first time dressing and I apparently got the wrong size and it split in half lol. I am pretty thin but I underestimated how petite women really are. As LivingTheDream said, you have some guts lol I will take my chances online again

LOL, Forever 21 should give me stock investments considering how much I shop there.

A lot of websites give tips on how to measure for a bra size.  My measurements for a bra are 34 below bust, 38 bust and 36 above bust which comes out as 38B but I can't seem to fill it. So unless you can fill one out my recommedation is to buy sports bras or bralettes.
I usually buy padded layering bralettes in a large size and then put a bra on top. So say you are 38B like I am but actually fill it like an A cup. You can put the padded bralette on and adjust yourself into it, then you will appear the size up and when you put the regular bra on top it will fill in.
Let me know if you try this way. I hope my idea helps others out~!

PS. The padded bralette is also quite good on its own if you want to wear something but not be too noticeable, its really just a padded training bra for adults. You can also use one of those self-adhesive suction cup bras too instead of the bralette, the suction cup bras work really good to push your breasts inwards to create cleavage.
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Robyn37

I now have a sports bra and normal underwire bra with pockets for breastforms, and I love them! I do still have my little a cup bra when in stealth mode LOL. Everytime I bought one in a store my face must have looked as red as a tomato when I was checking out, I was so scared!
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Cindy

Quote from: CaptFido87 on January 04, 2015, 03:26:21 PM
Wow! You people have nerves of steel. Idk how you could just walk into a store and buy a bra/ panties :embarrassed: :laugh:. I simply got too nervous to do such a thing so I ordered my first bra online. Perhaps once I've gotten over the fear I'd like to go into a store and look at stuff and in person to get a proper feel for it.

The easiest place to buy a bra? Victoria Secrets or similar stores. Most women don't bother with such stores, unless it is for a seducing session or a wedding, and they are VERY use to 'guys' buying underwear for their 'girlfriends'. But they tend to be expensive.
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CaptFido87

Thanks for the tip Cindy,

My friend just got a job at lane bryant, so she's gonna help me out when she gets some more expertise.
Hi I'm Marty. I'm a MTF Transgender who wants nothing more than to finally let Samantha (Sammi) come out and play.


As of: 03/07/2015
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dahliasimone1981

Best bra ever: Victorias Secret Bombshell. Having zero breasts, it makes me an A-cup (being small boned, anything larger than an A or B looks silly on me anyhoe). It's pricy, but SO worth the investment.
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Alana_Jane


If you're looking for a pair of breast forms on a budget, Meg Winters from "You Can Call Me Meg" blog recently posted about a company that has a set that are ~50% less than they typical budget form.  I just received mine last Saturday, ~$57 including shipping for a set that'll be a 40-C-.  The -C- size is about as big as I'd want to go, any bigger and its a lot of weight to carry. 

-Alana
Alana - Beautiful/Serene/Awakening
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DaniChan

Thanks for the tip Alana.
I'll probably get a pair from them ^_^
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MarissaJ

I like the genie bras. They are comfortable and if you have small breasts or no breasts they still fit comfy.
I'm not really a boy, I just play one on TV.





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