Quote from: stephaniec on January 07, 2015, 01:05:48 PM
seems to me a lot of valid points. In my case it's just the particular situation . Someone on line , living quite a distance apart, more probable than not will never meet in person much less physically, basically just a   possible friendship after at least many months down the road. If the friendship ever got that close the inquiring afraid to be rejected questioning might be the best.

The option remains open to slip it into conversation, right? "Did I mention I transitioned male to female?", at some point when it's relevant.

I've never disclosed my past medical history to anyone upon meeting them (I only see it as a correctable mishap) and most people I meet do not disclose their medical conditions either, unless there is a need to do so. My advice is to just be yourself and if you find yourself leaning into what may be a romantic or physical relationship -- then you will have to cross that subject matter. By then, he will have come to know you as the wonderful lady you are (with a fantastic aptitude for math no less) and not come into the possibility of a relationship with a 'preconceived' notion.  My two cents worth and if you rub the two pennies together they wont start a fire ;-)