If he's straight then what would make a guy date a (at least pre op) trans girl over a cis girl?

Why would he accept her having a penis if he could just date any other girl? Isn't that something so important to guys?

Are there really normal straight guys into trans chicks or do they all have some kind of issues?

What % of psychologically mostly healthy straight guys do you think will accept a trans girl?

This is what would make a guy date a pre-op woman!



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Quote from: sad panda on January 14, 2015, 08:05:47 PM
If he's straight then what would make a guy date a (at least pre op) trans girl over a cis girl?

Interest in parts of her other than her genitals. E.g., brains...

QuoteWhy would he accept her having a penis if he could just date any other girl? Isn't that something so important to guys?

Often, but it's not always a deal-breaker.

QuoteAre there really normal straight guys into trans chicks or do they all have some kind of issues?

Everybody has issues. Everybody.

But please be careful how you use the word "normal," because it doesn't really exist. To make that a useful question, you need to find a way to say what you really mean.

QuoteWhat % of psychologically mostly healthy straight guys do you think will accept a trans girl?

This is a pretty offensive question. Why do you think there should be a connection between poor psychological health and being open to a relationship with a trans girl?

Yeah, I glossed over the offensive parts. I just wanted to get in B4 lock!

Quote from: jeni on January 14, 2015, 08:20:16 PM
Interest in parts of her other than her genitals. E.g., brains...

Well I get that but why wouldn't he rather have both? :s I mean there's SO many cis women.

Are there some examples of relationships that worked long-term for trans women with cis men? Marriage and adoption? Do u think cis men would stick around after they realized this is going to be their only partner for the rest of their life?

Quote from: Devlyn Marie on January 14, 2015, 08:10:56 PM
This is what would make a guy date a pre-op woman!



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Best.  Post.  Ever.

I want to print this on a #%$@ing t-shirt.

I think the only reason an truly open minded would pass a trans girl he loves if he really wants genetics children someday with his lover. I wish I would get pregnant than it would make me undoubtably transition. Maybe medicine can solve that, but most likely outside our lifetime.

Nice pic Devlyn.....really lovely look 

L Katy

Not every man and woman on the planet is centred on parts. Not every one wants to procreate.

And, heck, some of us fall in love with a person, not a set of genitals or an ability to procreate.

I'm hoping the guy I just met wants me for my brains and beauty.

See I appreciate the optimism but I want the reality....

I'm thinking the only solution for a trans woman is to not tell her man period, just get SRS and make up smth about infertility.

You say it's not about genitals but even trans MEN have more long term success with straight men than trans women.

This world is cruel I guess....

I'd love some inspiration though and to be proved wrong. I know guys can accept it for a relationship, it just never seems to get anywhere. I'm not traditional I just think it's fair that a trans woman would want what typically any other cis girl would want for her life.

 

I find your post offensive and ridiculous.

Funny though it may seem men and women can love and desire long term relationships with men and women because they just love each other.

My BF has absolutely no issues with anything except me as a person.

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