Hello

I am the significant other of a transgender person, but I'm cis myself. This means I have been doing a lot of reading and learning, and I wanted somewhere I could ask question I have if I want to.

I do have a question, out of curiosity mainly (hence the username) but as it has the potential to be misinterpreted if not worded well. I was going to privately ask a staff member about it first to make sure I don't unintentionally get off on the wrong foot or offend anyone (although I have other non-binary friends, I'm new to being this close to anyone who lives it), and also ask which section to put it in. Unfortunately I don't know how to send a private message to someone without viewing their profile - which I can't do for a few posts. Help would be lovely!

PS: I don't expect to be very active on this site so I am sorry if there are long delays between my posts.

Hi Curiosity, welcome to Susan's Place! Thanks for being supportive and for trusting us with your questions! Go ahead and fire away, we go easy on newbies and we accept respectful questions. You're trying to learn.

Hugs, Devlyn

Hi Curiosity,

Welcome to Susan's Place and congratulations for finding us. 

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We have a lot of SOs that come here, my own wife included.  Please pull up a chair and post all of the questions you might have.  There are many well-informed members among us.

Hugs,
~Jill

Hi Curious 

Welcome to Susan's    Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

We do also have a Significant Others talk area that may be of interest to you

Hugs

V M

Welcome Curiosity to Susan's family

Lots of topics to explore and posts to write

Safe passage on your path

Hugs