I applied to join a bi/lesbian women's group and was approved finally. Women are heavily screened apparently and only GGs and post-ops are are accepted. As I have now decided to cool it as far as jumping into sexual escapades. And although I definitely want to experience men, I am looking for a woman as far as long term relationships go. And I am not ready for an LTR at this time so this will be an excellent opportunity to get to know women I might like to have a relationship with.

Quote from: melissa90299 on October 18, 2007, 09:24:49 AM
I applied to join a bi/lesbian women's group and was approved finally. Women are heavily screened apparently and only GGs and post-ops are are accepted. As I have now decided to cool it as far as jumping into sexual escapades. And although I definitely want to experience men, I am looking for a woman as far as long term relationships go. And I am not ready for an LTR at this time so this will be an excellent opportunity to get to know women I might like to have a relationship with.

Why did you tell them you were TS?.....I wouldn't have.....and never do.. 

Quote from: Berliegh on October 18, 2007, 11:08:02 AM

Quote from: melissa90299 on October 18, 2007, 09:24:49 AM
I applied to join a bi/lesbian women's group and was approved finally. Women are heavily screened apparently and only GGs and post-ops are are accepted. As I have now decided to cool it as far as jumping into sexual escapades. And although I definitely want to experience men, I am looking for a woman as far as long term relationships go. And I am not ready for an LTR at this time so this will be an excellent opportunity to get to know women I might like to have a relationship with.

Why did you tell them you were TS?.....I wouldn't have.....and never do.. 

I didn't say I told them I was TS. But I probably will. Women appreciate honesty and the culture here is totally different than the one you are in.

Congrats, I'm glad that you found a group you like melissa. Being in a woman's group is a very good thing, and -- taking the romantic relationship part aside -- it's a great way to connect with other women. I wish you the best of luck!

Thanks Natalie, that current avatar of ou is terminally cute!

I finally checked out yor vlog and I wonder why you don't re-invent yourself without the TG tag. You certainly are ready for it. You are blossoming before our very eyes.

Good show, Melissa!

My sexual orientation is lesbian and I practiced it as far as the limits of my prior life would allow.

When I showed-up on the job as the true me I got encouragement from those women I knew to be lesbian, and some I didn't know.  That acceptance meant the most to me.

Enjoy!

Wing Walker

Congratulations! There is nothing quite like being accepted by your own people. It took years of hard work for trans women to be accepted by Lesbians in my city. I wouldn't trade my alliance with the my Lesbian friends for anything.