I have a Go Girl as well. Are you planning to keep it secretly in your pants all the time, or just try out urinating while standing? I does work to pee. And it is soft enough to tuck into the waistband of pants. I find the flimsiness to be an extra challenge to actually using it. The problem for me is that I can't quite feel whether or not I am pressing it in place firmly enough or not. With a thicker or stiffer stp, I can feel the pressure down there, which enables me to pee confidently. With this one, you have to be careful to apply enough pressure to create a seal around the back, but not so much pressure that the funnel collapses on itself. Like Jayden said, it works if you hold it gently. Of course, this is true in various degrees of all stps.