This is when you first started kissing, touching and up to sex, regardless if you already knew or not that you were in a body with the wrong gender. 

My therapist asked me this question and my answer was that I started kissing and touching at 17, sex at 19.  Too late?

How about you?

Emily

uhh lets see: kissing... and sex.... Holding hands:24.... uh yea....

I knew I wanted to be with girls since I was, like, 4 or 5.  Like, really, really, REALLY early.  I never had the "girls have cooties" phase.  I even had what you could call sexual dreams as early as 7.  Well, as sexual as a 7 year old would have, which is really just kissing and cuddling with naked girls.  I wouldn't really get the whole "penetration" part of sex until I was about 12, which is also when I started masturbating. 

I never actually had a chance to be with a girl until I was 20.  My first kiss, my first and only partner, and she was, quite frankly, the single worst person I have ever known.  I tried to get with girls in school, but they all thought I was weird.  I had gal pals in middle school I could hang out with, but it got weird when I developed feelings for a few of them.  Others just thought it was weird that a boy wouldn't have guy friends.  High School?  I might as well had ebola, or something.  No one wanted anything to do with me, socially, sexually, you name it.

My virginity felt like an albatross around my neck, a curse I couldn't wait to be rid of.  Because boys were nothing if they're virgins.  They're jokes.  And I was trying so hard to prove I was a boy, back then, and here it is, one more sign of failure.  So I hooked up with this girl that honestly repulsed me, who was thoughtless, selfish, mean, manipulative, and a constant liar.  And I let myself stay with her because I wanted so bad to be rid of this curse.  Because, I think I had to have sex to be able to prove I was a "man" somehow.  And she would do everything she could to undermine any sense of manhood I ever had, because i was never enough "man" for her. 

Did your therapist say that was "too late"?  Because I know mine was late. I don't know if it was "too late", but it was later in life than most claim to have their first kiss, at least.  Not for a lack of trying, though.  If I could have at 7, I would have.  I sure as hell did try.

First encounter was the summer I turned 15.

Didn't know I was trans, but I did start wishing that I had the parts she had instead of the ones I had.

Started kissing girls in 4th grade, and first intercourse at 13.  Always had a steady girlfriend after that.

28. Pre-hormones, but it wouldn't have been possible before I had woken up to my trans identity.

Still haven't had sex at 30 and I'm not planning on doing it any time soon. Aside from the fact that I don't have potential mates for that, I also am quite nervous about the intensity of the prospect. Therefore I don't want to do it unless the right context, circumstance and mutual understanding of the situation is there. I didn't develop sexuality until I went on hormones, so I wasn't interested before. Now it's this annoying thing looming over my head. I would've rathered I'd stayed not interested.

Age 6.  I guess I really wanted to know what I was missing!

First kissed a girl at 14 and lost my virginity(the first time) at 18 during the interval in the Sweeney(it was a great show and I didn't want to miss it)videos weren't around in the mid  70s

I still haven't kissed anyone yet....I'm more than a little behind

kissed a girl at 21, never had sex at all

i always had a fear of getting too close and intimate, i didnt really know why. I think I do now though....

Uh.........

First kiss? Age 21. (Unless you count the cute childish kiss I had with my best friend when I was like 8. )

Intimate touching? Age 22.

Sex? Never. It would have made me feel like I was violating a perfect beautiful person with my disguting unholy anatomy. She wanted to do it... for like 4 years straight she was pushing me into it because she wanted to. But I couldn't do it. Any time that our "intimacy" involved her touching me instead of the other way around, it just did nothing for me. So needless to say, I don't think it's going to happen until I've sent my current defective anatomy back to the genital store and bought new ones that don't stick out.

Hi Daria,

No, she did not said that it was late, as she is not like that.   During the session I made a comment of someone that had referred as something with my body not being  "normal" and she jump and said that  "he should not have made that comment"    I liked  her comment and attitude!.

Although she did not expressed it I do believe that she felt that for a non transgendered boy kissing and petting for the first time at 17 was kind of old, now of course I am and have been trans all of my life.   But I am reading between the lines,

Emily

I think I was around 14, but it was more my elder sister's friends messing about with me    I certainly learned allot as they even let me drive the cars they'd gotten for their sweet 16 birthdays

It all started after my mom got remarried and we moved to a newer neighborhood and the friends from the old neighborhood would visit, I was sitting on the edge of my bed muckin' about with my guitar (For some reason I was trying to imitate the chirping sounds of the wild birds that would light in the tree outside my window)

Anyway I looked up and noticed one of my sister's friends standing naked in front of a mirror in my sister's room which was kitty corner to mine and much to my surprise she turned and smiled at me

Things just kinda happened from there

I am very odd I suppose, I mean my first kiss on the lips with a girl was around 11 IIRC, but the first time I actually honest to goodness made out with someone was when I was 16, the first time I actually had sex with someone came long before that at 13.....I had all sorts of wrong ideas then. I guess it kinda messed me up because I didn't have sex again till I was 16 (with the person I was making out with).

I used to use my attraction to girls as a shield to try and convince myself I wasn't trans. I would try and justify that clearly I didn't want to be a woman because I wasn't interested in men, like clearly every woman is straight lol. Eventually it got to be too much for me to deal with and I gave into the understanding that I had known but been afraid of tackling for a long time that I was in fact a woman and whoever I was attracted to had nothing to do with that.

I am still attracted to other women,  but I am secure in my sexuality and my gender identity now

18 with a girl and if you count a butt kiss with a guy at 12.

    At 14 I was seduced by a girl,willingly, but it never felt right even though I was quite busy.Things changed when I went to SE Asia where I met a lot of professional ladies and they clued me in on who I really was.Validation of my feelings so to speak. From then on I lead a dual life till I melted down. 

I was 19. Spent 15 years in long term relationships with girls afterward, trying to be a man. I didn't realise I was trans until later - had it all repressed - but I always found the male role ... disorientating, put it that way.

Now Im single, identifying androgynous and pansexual, and open to suggestions (~:

Didn't have sex up until last year and I'm 24 lol soo yeah after about 4 to years into my transition. I just wasn't comfortable with myself before transition but I'm glad I waited, it was worth it.

"I was 19. Spent 15 years in long term relationships with girls afterward, trying to be a man. I didn't realise I was trans until later - had it all repressed - but I always found the male role ... disorientating, put it that way."

snap me too! 19.
but i sadly went to university and acted like a slut, thought sleeping with girls made me a man, loved it and a few of them and so felt a lot of internal turmoil about having to be a fake person with them and imagine i was a girl too to get off, slept with as many girls as i could and a guy but was still trans,
Much happier now! For the first time Im beginning to allow myself to imagine maybe being a parent one day...

The first girl I kissed was when I was 5. She was my first "girlfriend" lol. Like a 5 year knew what that meant.  But I didn't have any luck in high school. I was trigger shy. List my virginity when I wad 21 to a girl. Its kinda funny because she came out as a lesbian after we dated.