Hello girls,
first of all I would like to give newgrrrl all the support I can give. I'm starting to know how much is difficult all this, and I mean also the stuff that pops up into your mind and how much it can hurt. You are great!
Then, it was funny what BunnyBee wrote, 'cause I think about this stuff all the time. I'm a very curious and... paranoid person

(hope not tooo much paranoid!). Since I discovered my real gender identity, I felt a big difference between my "male identity" and my real female identity. This brought me to be closed up, fearing my feelings and the fact to hurt the people that surround me. They knew a very sweet me, and I am... not... I mean, I feel I'm not the person I was trying to be, both in gender and character sense. Anyways...
Can I be machist? Against feminism?
Can I be racist?
Can I be against homosexuality?
My answer was: yes. I can.
To my opinion, as humans, we are not coherent. We can be transgender and still be racist, for instance.
It is weird, and from the outside it feels not right. But still, I can.
The point is that... it would last the time to understand it is stupid.
Maybe only racism must be understood, as it depends on the willing of dominating and possessing, and on some cultural imprinting (especially for us "white" people).
By the way, I think we can be feminist like other women or not.
Although I think that this is strongly needed.
Well... maybe this stuff I wrote make no sense XD
Many kisses and hugs,
E.