The sort of hyperactive libido I was talking about is when sex dominates every conversation, and it seems like it's all-consuming in their mind.  That's male-like in my opinion and it's just how I see it. I would hate to end up that way (for me) but if it makes someone happy then by all means.

It felt like previously I always had a very strong sex drive, needing to masturbate usually twice a day to get some piece of mind.

As I realized I'm not a man, for whatever reasons, my sex drive went down somewhat but was still strong. Masturbating about once a day.

I tried to define myself as bigender at first as a sort of "realistic compromise", but there came a period where I fought internally with myself about this and eventually understood I'm a trans woman and I need to do whatever can be done to get me a feminine face, so I decided to start with HRT, laser hair removal and working on my wigs. It took 3 months to get HRT authorized, during which my sex drive went down to masturbating once every 3-7 days.

Then when I started the actual HRT, it hit rock bottom. Masturbating once every month or two, and even then it felt forced just to see that I could do it.

9 months into HRT, I switched to gel and my hormone levels went back to male or near male. At this time I had a girlfriend for half a year already, my libido came back, I could finally enjoy sex not only from seeing her satisfied, but also feeling satisfied myself.

After 12 months HRT, I had an appointment where we changed the dosage and my libido is dead again.

Sometimes I get a spark of sexual excitement, but then I remember how much work it will be for me to maintain that spark, and I just feel it isn't worth it. Much better for me to just enjoy pleasuring her until there comes a day when maintaining a level of arousal won't be a titanic struggle for me.

My libido decreased, but it is ultra rewarding when I'm 'in the mood'. It's much more sexually pleasing being the way I am now - it doesn't have the accompanying feeling of 'wrongness' for starters.