So I came out to my sister last night. I was so nervous about it. I told her that I had been struggling with my gender identity for my whole life. Right after I said that, my sister responded with this -
"I think I know what your about to tell me...if you feel like you're a male, then I think that's great! You need to be who you are as a person. No judgement here! Can't live your life not being your true self!"
After she said that, I cried. I couldn't help it. They were happy tears, relieved tears...she also said that I have always been more like a big brother to her. She promised to be my ally and she tried to reassure me that my mum will understand. My sister said that it makes all makes sense to her, and that it will make sense to our mum too.
I thought I'd share this as it is a positive experience.