So...I think I have a date?

VikingArchangel · February 21, 2015, 07:32:54 PM

Some of you may remember me talking about this girl I met in another thread. The one who admitted a crush on me, so I told her about my transition to avoid feeling like a liar (Which she was fine with)?

Well...I think she's still interested. Mostly because when we found out we've got the same day off next week, she said we should "...go see a movie together!"

Is this female friendliness, or did she just ask me out?

April_TO · February 21, 2015, 07:37:43 PM

Viking whatever it is just take it. Now, it's in your court to pursue it or not. Give it your best shot and see how it goes.
Label it after once she says "yes you're my gf and I love you"

Good luck

xxx

April

mrs izzy · February 21, 2015, 07:38:20 PM

Congrats and hope the date goes well and the energy is there to create that spark.

Rachel · February 21, 2015, 07:44:58 PM

Congratulations, have fun.

Sunderland · February 21, 2015, 09:00:44 PM

Sounds like romance is in the air to me! I hope you have a great time together.

VikingArchangel · February 22, 2015, 09:17:10 PM

Maybe there is a god, after all! Night before the big day...and I find Dermablend in my shade on sale at the mall. I'll post after tomorrow!

Sabrina · February 22, 2015, 09:33:36 PM

Don't let this opportunity go to waste. I've lost out on a few good relationships in the past because I didn't believe they were real. Plus, if she asks you out, the hard part is over. Have fun and enjoy yourself. I just hope I'll be asked out someday...

ChloëAri · February 23, 2015, 09:56:05 AM

Have fun, and see how it goes! You won't know unless you try.

VikingArchangel · February 23, 2015, 10:17:51 PM

Well, she's an Aries, I'm a Capricorn who apparently mistook leaning into my shoulder and playing with my hair for romantic interest. Seems Aries girls like to tease. My friend tells me she's secretly testing me? Ugh....

Sunderland · February 23, 2015, 10:29:05 PM

Sounds confusing. I would have taken that for a sure sign of romantic interest, too. Friends don't usually act that way.

Tripdistrans · February 23, 2015, 10:42:32 PM

As an Aries I can confirm that (before&after transition) teasing is the most fun anyone can have.

VikingArchangel · February 24, 2015, 07:15:46 AM

Lesson learned, fixed that chink in my armor. Time to get ready for work!

Tripdistrans · March 04, 2015, 06:52:57 AM

Let us know how it goes with her.

zoechantel · March 04, 2015, 07:02:20 PM

I'm so happy for you. I would do anything for a girl to have a crush on me. you're very lucky hun. unlike with heterosexual relationships, lesbians have no fine line between friends and dating. what is meant to happen will happen. it's your job to be there and the adventure will be played out. good luck girl

VikingArchangel · March 04, 2015, 07:39:19 PM

Quote from: Tripdistrans on March 04, 2015, 06:52:57 AM
Let us know how it goes with her.

*laughs* Alright!
We're hanging out about 2-3 times a week now. She still doesn't call them "dates", even though we usually wind up snuggled together in a movie or just sitting in the car talking after a shopping trip. She has the cutest giggle ever!

She's really jittery about hugs and stuff, though. I figure I should just give her time to realize what it means to be seeing someone in transition. Oh, and most of her friends are apparently masculine type cis men. No boyfriends previously...yeah...I have news for you, hun!

Tripdistrans · March 04, 2015, 08:20:22 PM

Woo! Sounds like it's going really well, I'm honestly jealous (and also very happy for you). Four for you!

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