Hey there!
Not really sure this is the place, but it feels the most appropriate...
I've noticed that a lot of men don't have bags. They carry things in pockets, and just generally have less "stuff".
I can't do that. If I don't carry some form of bag with me, my anxiety spikes through the roof. I need a place to carry my "supplies" as it were. I always have a bunch of miscellaneous junk that helps me cope, not to mention just holding the strap helps me ground myself. And I almost always have a waterbottle as well, and my bag helps me carry that.
So I'm trying to find a bag that is more masculine than what I have. Because I've found that, while my bags aren't purses or overly feminine (gender neutral), they look like purses or quite feminine when I carry them.
Thoughts? I know backpacks are a good choice, but I've been looking at things like this:
http://www.aliexpress.com/item/40Hot-selling-brand-bag-Canvas-chest-pack-bag-casual-backpack-shoulder-bag-multifunctional-bag/1053084869.html?s=pwould that work?
Could it also just be how I carry bags perhaps? Is there any resource for this sort of thing?
Thanks all.