I just came across this interview with a cis guy with a micropenis.  He's OK with it, and he says some things which can enlighten and comfort many of us.

http://www.alternet.org/sex-amp-relationships/im-hung-hamster-meet-man-micropenis

well it was an interesting article for sure. While I wouldn't say that I have a "Micro-dick" by any means, but it is rather small. Erect I'm almost 4 and a half inches so it's nothing to write home about. While I know most people never mentioned it to me, I do know most people Have talked behind my back on it and  it was known by a good deal on my high school class. I have wished it were longer sometimes but I'm usually fine with it. When it's really cold outside or it wet it can shrivel up tightly. The only good thing I've really had from it being small is that, it's easier to underwear as nothing sticks every where. Also didn't have to wear a cup in any sport as being kicked there didn't hurt as much. Most people missed actually which I am thankful for lol. Just my take on it

I'm a member of the itsy-bitsy-teeny-weenie club... that guy sounds like he's in a whole different category though.

Yeah, he is -- perhaps a bit of an inspiration to those of us who will likely never have meta or phallo, whose junk has made it to maybe 1 1/2" - 2" on a good day, and you still can't really see it...

He's "just a guy," he's at peace with himself, and he seems to have had a perfectly adequate and enjoyable sex life.

Quote from: Tysilio on February 25, 2015, 05:58:33 PM

He's "just a guy," he's at peace with himself, and he seems to have had a perfectly adequate and enjoyable sex life.

I frequently had erectile dysfunction with my ex (I wouldn't say I suffered with it as having my member refusing to work was a blessing for me), my ex would happily state that she was very satisfied with her sex life, size is no barrier to satisfaction

Quote from: Tysilio on February 25, 2015, 05:58:33 PM
He's "just a guy," he's at peace with himself, and he seems to have had a perfectly adequate and enjoyable sex life.

Which means he's doing a lot better than some dudes who are at 6+ inches who do nothing but fret and worry about it not being long enough.

My only chagrin was when people, especially women, use "small dick" as a put down - for example "guys who drive a flashy car must have a small dick" or "guys who are @$$holes must have a small dick" which implies only pathetic and insecure guys have a small penis. It's very unfair on all the lovely guys (cis or trans) who do have a small fellow. If a guy drives a flashy car or is an @$$hole it has nothing to do with the size of their member.

Quote from: Ms Grace on February 25, 2015, 06:22:02 PM
Which means he's doing a lot better than some dudes who are at 6+ inches who do nothing but fret and worry about it not being long enough.

My only chagrin was when people, especially women, use "small dick" as a put down - for example "guys who drive a flashy car must have a small dick" or "guys who are @$$holes must have a small dick" which implies only pathetic and insecure guys have a small penis. It's very unfair on all the lovely guys (cis or trans) who do have a small fellow. If a guy drives a flashy car or is an @$$hole it has nothing to do with the size of their member.

The "compensating for a small dick" line is insulting, innit?

Also, the mysgogeny that arrises when someone a pussy or no balls, which the insults this guy would get are on the same spectrum at least, are really poor taste by their users. As Betty White is quoted to have said. "Why do they tell guys to grow a pair of balls? They should grow a vagina, those things take a hell of a beating." (or something to that effect). While no insult is fair or nice to anyone, using gender norms as insults when someone doesn't adhere to that particular label is just plain... NO.

Thanks for the post, it's helpful to know that I could one day be part of the itsy-bitsy-teeny-weenie club, since bottom surgery (atm) is a non-option for me. I'm not planning on marrying, and I don't plan on sexing things up IRL, so the bottom can stay as is, no sense in inviting extra health trouble. I have had enough surgeries in my life, the fewer down the road I need, the better. Plus, I can pack instead. Top suregry though... yeah that one I need to get rid of the lumps... oops, getting off topic... *Lorenz slips out of the thread.*

This is a great article despite a horrible title. He sounds like a very together guy, self-confident and aware of himself.

--Jay

To be honest, if the size of my penis was a big issue for a woman, Id walk away from the  relationship. Sex is more important to some than others, but like looks, it may not last. Erectile dysfunction, injuries etc can occur, and if that is the basis for the relationship, then its dead in the water.

There are prosthetic devices if a guy is undersized, so satisfaction can still be acheived. If the love is real, then it includes the whole person, not just what hangs between a guy's legs. If that is the most important aspect of the relationship, then its probably doomed from the start. I was on a forum a while back and couldn't believe how many women were willing to dump their boyfriend becasue they were small. No offense ladies. There are guys who will dump girl friends for lack of breast sixe or insist the girl get implants.

People can be darned strange.

sam1234

I think the gal that walked away from him, he's too good for that. He deserved a better person.
BTW, sounds like a guy with a meta (don't think he is, micropenis is a real medical condition, ableit rare, but it does sound like the smallest guys with meta).

--Jay