Quote from: jessical on March 05, 2015, 10:27:10 PM
I had the court order name and gender change hearing. And my request was granted
I also got my name and gender updated with the SSA. At the moment I feel happy, but also relieved.
Congratulations Jess!
I so love reading everyones happy moments.
Now for mine. Saturday morning I had another great therapy session. I then went and had some retail therapy. My objective was a non-black shrug to summer-ize some of my black dresses, which I'd gotten this tip from my therapist. (One of the benefits of having a female therapist is I also get some very good style tips

) So on going into my favorite Dress Barn, I find what I'm looking for, but also find a couple of lovely spring/summer dresses. One is a very nice knit color block sheath dress and the other is a beautiful polka-dot dress with a yellow belt and a retro tulip flare.
But that's not all, there's more... In the evening I had a performance with my community orchestra. I played 2nd French Horn in Mozart's 4th Horn Concerto. After the concert I came out to two more people, both of whom were very supportive. Yeah! I have a girl-friend who knows and celebrates me as a girl. I also talked to a mutual friend of my ex and mine. This was the first time I talked to her since she was told about me. She expressed her support of me having to do this, and I thanked her for supporting my ex. We both are concerned about my ex and only want the best for her. I feel so lucky to have my community music outlets support me. I was thinking during the performance that there might be some worry about having a transgender performer subtract from ticket sales, or even draw excess attention when the music should be the focus. That's not the case, I really feel fully supported, and I have to say this makes me a happy lady.
-Alana