Hey, I've been thinking about supplements these days too.. though more along the lines of muscle building.
As much as it seems appealing to go with male recommendations, the fact is that your body (and mine too) is currently operating as female so stick to female dosages and stuff. Sometimes I'm tempted to treat my body as male but that probably won't do any good in the long run, you want to be healthy not hurt your body. As far as I know, there aren't really any ways to naturally boost T levels safely and significantly, so I've done away with thinking about doing something like that. I have read that weight training boosts T a bit, but I'm not sure whether that works for us too or just for cis guys.
In the realm of workout supplementation however, my understanding is that supplementation guidelines are no different across genders (based on lots of reading I've been doing here and there but I could be wrong). I recently started taking a pre-workout supplement, these stuff have a whole mix of stuff in them that are supposed to give you a boost in energy, strength and focus. I've noticed that mine gives me some sort of aggressive energy, which I'm finding pretty awesome. Mine also has a bit of creatine, which (in addition to helping your body provide energy) is supposed to help you build mass. I just started so I don't have any "results" to report yet. Other than that, I use protein powder, but I wouldn't really consider a supplement, and more like a way of wasting money honestly, but I aim for as high a protein intake as I can manage (meaning to see a nutritionist about this). I'd also reiterate what adrian said, working out and seeing incremental improvements in my strength and muscle mass is helping me out a lot, also just in maintaining my mental state.
For a "female," I believe I've read somewhere that you'd be doing pretty well if you manage to build 1 lb in 2 weeks, but of course that's dependent on your diet (for maximal muscle gains you need to maintain a caloric surplus, and also make sure you get enough protein), and your workout routine. I believe the surplus should be something around 125kcal above your maintenance caloric requirements, above that and you risk putting on more fat. It's hard, I've managed to build about 2kg in 10 months? Provided I try to keep at a caloric deficit most days and only recently upped my lifting game. And I would consider myself a person with a natural ability to build muscle (as in I had a decent amount before I ever started exercising)..