Well I am down 20 lbs and well on my way to making the target weight I set for myself to start HRT. I also have come to terms with my faith and my identity. So I am preparing for this to be the year when I finally go public. I almost told my boss yesterday but since I have not talked to my therapist about this specifically yet I decided to hold off till after my next appointment. Thank you to all my sisters for the wisdom and encouragement!