Hmm. I had looked at stylish flesh once before, and I remember seeing some reviews. I'll take another look at them. It will be a little while for me, as I'm outside the US and importing things here is usually time consuming and expensive. It's usually easier for me to have things shipped to the States and then get them from a friend or family member, but it will take a few months. If it's that much better, I wouldn't mind the delay as I'm used to it. Mostly I'm surprised at how much I didn't like the one I have.
I originally used a p-style and loved it, but wanted something more discreet and easier to pocket. I found the transition to a spoon pretty easy from that. But a plain spoon and a spoon packer seem really different to me. Do you know how the stylish flesh compares for packing comfort? I just really hate being jabbed by the spoon and tubing, takes away all the benefit I get from packing. Standing is kind of a requirement for me at this point, at least at work. I wear coveralls and we only have squat toilets, no way I'm giving up the convenience of standing even if it didn't make me feel better about my body.
I have a second packer that is unmodified, and I've been able to push it out of the way to get my spoon in place without to much hassle. (less hassle than my stp packer) But I'd probably be willing to go for a stylish flesh at some point if it's actually comfortable and doesn't leak. But it sounds like most people either sit or pack an stp, not stp separate?