He might be very good specialist, but he is wrong on the DHT claim.
I'm not a specialist or a MD, so don't take this as a experts fact. But I've read many times of many cases where people were taking DHT-blocker (either finasteride or dutasteride) for longer periods of time, for example 5, 7 or 8 years, and it lost it's effectivness because body system got adjusted to it, and contra-effected to it to the point where the effective dose would have to be 5 times or 10 times higher than what was the effective dose at the beginning. Taking such larger amounts would not only be pretty expensive, but could also affect some other physical functions and cause unwanted side effects. A change to another DHT blocker in many cases resolved this issue, but it isn't clear and often reported for how long. I did read of some reports where dutasteride lost its effectivness after around 2-3 years of taking, after previously taking finasteride for (example) 10 years. Also this doesn't happen to everybody, as some take finasteride for a very long time and it obviously must be still effective. So this is more about that people who over time lose effectivness of one DHT-blocker, and have also more likely chances that the same will happen with another. But this is really more the discussion for you and endocrinologist (that kind who has knowledge about this sort of things... many sadly don't.).
I hope you resolve the issue soon.